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6 years ago
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Hey everyone,
I'm sorry I've been away and haven't really been talking too much on what has been going on. I was trying to keep everything out of the public eye until we got everything a bit more orderly.
My household is getting ready to fight my mom for custody of my nephew.
Ever since my stepdad died she's been getting... way worse than she used to be abuse wise.
A lot went down and last weekend when we had my nephew she sent him to us dirtier and with a worse rash than she ever has. So we've gotten together with my nephew's parents and we are all teaming up to fight for him.
They aren't really ready to take him back into their own care just yet, so they are fighting to get him in the care of my household's (My sister, brother in law, and myself)
For people who don't know, my mom is abusive and manipulative. Over the past year I've had contact with her only to ensure the safety of my nephew, I've only dealt with her crap this long because if I don't, I won't be able to see my nephew, which while he's loud and can be annoying at times, I do still love him dearly. He's my little buddy and it is breaking my heart to have him being withheld from me.
But anyway, I served my mother with court papers this week and am now able to openly talk about it. (Idk if she stalks any of my VoraciousRose stuff, so I didn't want to talk about it until I served her with court papers)
On the top of that madness, my brother in law's grandma passed over the weekend and we have gotten through her funeral and such.
I have also been offered a job at the grocery store down the road. It's just a part time position and is walking distance from me. So no waiting around for rides and such thankfully.
But yeah, that's what's been going on and why there's been some radio silence.
I've been pretty upset as of recent because I'm worried for my nephew, I'm worried about my sister who is far more invested in my nephew than I am and as such has been dealing with some very hard depressive episodes, and I'm having to constantly address the thousands of lies my mother has made about me to attempt to sway my nephew's parents onto her side because she has no physical proof to use against my sister in court and is about to lose the case and all the income my nephew brings in for her and it's starting to piss her off.
It's just been... quite a time.
But I'm back, probably going to be a little slow as I am fighting the big sads at the moment, but I have to keep moving forward.
I'm sorry I've been away and haven't really been talking too much on what has been going on. I was trying to keep everything out of the public eye until we got everything a bit more orderly.
My household is getting ready to fight my mom for custody of my nephew.
Ever since my stepdad died she's been getting... way worse than she used to be abuse wise.
A lot went down and last weekend when we had my nephew she sent him to us dirtier and with a worse rash than she ever has. So we've gotten together with my nephew's parents and we are all teaming up to fight for him.
They aren't really ready to take him back into their own care just yet, so they are fighting to get him in the care of my household's (My sister, brother in law, and myself)
For people who don't know, my mom is abusive and manipulative. Over the past year I've had contact with her only to ensure the safety of my nephew, I've only dealt with her crap this long because if I don't, I won't be able to see my nephew, which while he's loud and can be annoying at times, I do still love him dearly. He's my little buddy and it is breaking my heart to have him being withheld from me.
But anyway, I served my mother with court papers this week and am now able to openly talk about it. (Idk if she stalks any of my VoraciousRose stuff, so I didn't want to talk about it until I served her with court papers)
On the top of that madness, my brother in law's grandma passed over the weekend and we have gotten through her funeral and such.
I have also been offered a job at the grocery store down the road. It's just a part time position and is walking distance from me. So no waiting around for rides and such thankfully.
But yeah, that's what's been going on and why there's been some radio silence.
I've been pretty upset as of recent because I'm worried for my nephew, I'm worried about my sister who is far more invested in my nephew than I am and as such has been dealing with some very hard depressive episodes, and I'm having to constantly address the thousands of lies my mother has made about me to attempt to sway my nephew's parents onto her side because she has no physical proof to use against my sister in court and is about to lose the case and all the income my nephew brings in for her and it's starting to piss her off.
It's just been... quite a time.
But I'm back, probably going to be a little slow as I am fighting the big sads at the moment, but I have to keep moving forward.
My sister will have custody of him at that point and there will be no more mind games played with his parents where he'll be used as a pawn.
Sorry to hear about your brother's grandma, as well. May she rest in peace.