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New Years Resolution
7 years ago
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I withheld my resolution until now, and would like to reveal it.
My resolution for 2019 is to not have toxic relationships. To be mature, and recognize red flags. To that I have had to do the following.
- Set space between me and my best friend. He is a good person deep down, but I can't give in to his toxic mentalities just because he is lonely, or when he is whining. I don't believe in betrayal, so I will not cut out someone who truly cares for me, but I have checked out of their personal drama that they voluntarily walk into. It doesn't matter how much distain they express. The actions say otherwise, and I need healthy distance to heal this friendship. It might mean seeing this person less, but as long as it is what I need to do, it is for the best. Tough love has a way of making people come around.
- No teenage mentalities with people. No matter how cool they were, or great they seem, I cannot be around toxic people. I cannot be around people that make me uncomfortable. Goodbye to those of you who harm me, or put me in danger. Im not sorry.
- To not let people do things that make me uncomfortable just because I am scared of them. Stalkers, predators, and people who have no respect for me are out. They are never going to be associated with me again. Don't even try. Im not even going to be bothered by them, or threatened. Talk to me, or bother me if you are one of these people, and I will file a police report.
- Its time for femboys to be strong, and not give into harmful people. We often act as pushovers, and go the long way instead of just saying no, and enforcing that decision. People earn the right to form bonds with you. Do not just trust people. Keep your guard up, and never let it down until someone earns the right to.
I will always be a kid at heart, but I will not be a kid in the mind. Im twenty four, going to college, interning at an office, and being a grown man. If you are not my boyfriend, a job, responsibilities, with my consent, kind in your heart, or a TRUE friend, then what are you doing with me? We are not on the same frequency anymore. This is 2019. The 2012 me moved on.
- Sherbert Fox
My resolution for 2019 is to not have toxic relationships. To be mature, and recognize red flags. To that I have had to do the following.
- Set space between me and my best friend. He is a good person deep down, but I can't give in to his toxic mentalities just because he is lonely, or when he is whining. I don't believe in betrayal, so I will not cut out someone who truly cares for me, but I have checked out of their personal drama that they voluntarily walk into. It doesn't matter how much distain they express. The actions say otherwise, and I need healthy distance to heal this friendship. It might mean seeing this person less, but as long as it is what I need to do, it is for the best. Tough love has a way of making people come around.
- No teenage mentalities with people. No matter how cool they were, or great they seem, I cannot be around toxic people. I cannot be around people that make me uncomfortable. Goodbye to those of you who harm me, or put me in danger. Im not sorry.
- To not let people do things that make me uncomfortable just because I am scared of them. Stalkers, predators, and people who have no respect for me are out. They are never going to be associated with me again. Don't even try. Im not even going to be bothered by them, or threatened. Talk to me, or bother me if you are one of these people, and I will file a police report.
- Its time for femboys to be strong, and not give into harmful people. We often act as pushovers, and go the long way instead of just saying no, and enforcing that decision. People earn the right to form bonds with you. Do not just trust people. Keep your guard up, and never let it down until someone earns the right to.
I will always be a kid at heart, but I will not be a kid in the mind. Im twenty four, going to college, interning at an office, and being a grown man. If you are not my boyfriend, a job, responsibilities, with my consent, kind in your heart, or a TRUE friend, then what are you doing with me? We are not on the same frequency anymore. This is 2019. The 2012 me moved on.
- Sherbert Fox
