Grr no privacy!
16 years ago
General
Ahh this is so frustrating! I got my new partial wolf fursuit this tuesday and I can't even wear it dammit! I got to wear it at Zero and Crays place the day I got it but now want to wear it my place. A simple thing like taking the fursuit out of the car and bringing it into the house is a major ordeal. With my work hours there is absolutely no way for me to be home and not my parents. I used to be able to bring furry stuff in and out of the house during the night because my parents slept on the backside of house but now my father sleeps at the front of the house now. Every time I step foot outside during the night he pops his head out the window and asks what I'm doing.
Why the hell does everything need a goddamn excuse in this place?! Why am I always explaining myself to my parents all the time? It could be the most stupidest little thing like getting a cd out of the car or something and they ask a million questions. Where are you going? What are you doing in the driveway? What cd is that?
My parents are not asking questions now because of all the weird hours Im gone due to the fandom, they were always like this. It just makes it so damn hard to do anything around here with out them knowing. I have absolutely no privacy! Hell I can't even bring a girl back to my place, I don't have a frigging door on my bedroom! Ahh I am so pissed right now. Why do they have to be like this. Who gives a shit what I do. I'm screwed, there is no way for me to get anything into the house now, with my dad sleeping near the window. Its like a goddamn watchtower at a prison.
This really sucks! All I wanted to do tonight was get the suit in the house, put that sucker on and stare at myself for hours in the mirror but no everything has to get all shitted up. Nights like these, I really do want to move out.
Why the hell does everything need a goddamn excuse in this place?! Why am I always explaining myself to my parents all the time? It could be the most stupidest little thing like getting a cd out of the car or something and they ask a million questions. Where are you going? What are you doing in the driveway? What cd is that?
My parents are not asking questions now because of all the weird hours Im gone due to the fandom, they were always like this. It just makes it so damn hard to do anything around here with out them knowing. I have absolutely no privacy! Hell I can't even bring a girl back to my place, I don't have a frigging door on my bedroom! Ahh I am so pissed right now. Why do they have to be like this. Who gives a shit what I do. I'm screwed, there is no way for me to get anything into the house now, with my dad sleeping near the window. Its like a goddamn watchtower at a prison.
This really sucks! All I wanted to do tonight was get the suit in the house, put that sucker on and stare at myself for hours in the mirror but no everything has to get all shitted up. Nights like these, I really do want to move out.
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I understand how you feel in wanting to keep certain aspects about yourself private from certain people, I'm the same way. Hopefully you'll have the means to move out someday where it will be less restricting. But what matters most is that you are staying true to yourself and still finding ways to be among fellow furries *fist pump*
Plus, your Youtube videos rock!
I know its hard to talk to parents about fandom and all, but well.. we all need to talk about it sometime -_-
now my parents know all about me, and they are pretty comprehensive and even happy that im into furries than other shit like gangsta shit and drugs and..... bla bla bla...
I also lived with my parents for about three years in my mid-twenties. It wasn't bad, but they had their ways of being nosey. It was their way of making things just uncomfortable enough that I'd be motivated to get my own place. And then once I did, they wanted to be invited over for dinner (which I managed a couple of times, it was very cool).
My mom now keeps track of me (and all the family) on Facebook. Considering how routine life can get, I wish I had something like a fur convention going on to give her something to ask questions about. As it is, we just play Facebook Scrabble.