I am probably getting exactly what I deserve. A friend is being extremely frustrating to deal with. He has been unemployed for better than a year and it's really affecting him badly. When I visit it's really hard to get him to even get out of bed to hang out with him. He has even out right egnored me and leaving me to fend for my self at his house. Every time I tried to get him to get out of bed he would just bite my head off Him treating me badly is not the issue considering I am extremely hard to deal with my self do to my autism. A great many furs want nothing to do with me as I am seen as rude and as annoying as all hell. The real issue is that it's really affecting his ability to find work and to get his life going in the right direction. Once I can get him engaged in some activity he seems to do fine the problem is getting him to get out of bed to get him to do the activity. Now what is actually going through his mind wale he is doing the activity that I do not actualy know as I can't read minds and I am as perspective as a blind man at a laser show. He keeps saying he would love to have a Mistress but in his current condition I doubt any woman would want him. If I did find him one she would just walk out on him not wanting to have to deal with his current depression issues. All I can do is to put up with it and hope that something better than I am capable of braking the cycle brakes him out of it soon before he does something drastic as every time I come over I am afraid that I will find him hanging from a tree in his back yard.