Coming Out - non-binary and new name!
5 years ago
General
I realllllly wish FA would allow you to change your username. WHY hasn't FA had an update that accomplishes that? LIKE EVERY OTHER SITE I USE ALLOWS IT.
Anyway.
Reaching new stages of trauma recovery. Like, finally, shucking off what everyone else wanted me to be and being myself.
So. Hello all, I am Selki, my pronouns are they/them, and I'm so happy and proud to tell you that.
Anyway.
Reaching new stages of trauma recovery. Like, finally, shucking off what everyone else wanted me to be and being myself.
So. Hello all, I am Selki, my pronouns are they/them, and I'm so happy and proud to tell you that.
FA+

Good for you! I'm glad you've been able to find this part of yourself! Good luck for the future ^w^
Congratulations on coming out and felicitations that you are feeling better and being able to reveal, and joyously feel, your truest self! May I offer my very best wishes to you for the rest of your days!
So happy for you, learning to be and love yourself <3
So a big hiya, Selk! from me
We're Armeline/Deirdre c: Fellow enby albeit a she/her one
As for the not being able to change your username thing, IIRC it's because of the way FA was built, back when this was a small amateur-run site. They'd have to tear a lot of the existing code down and rebuild the whole thing nearly from the ground up, to allow that kind of a change without everything breaking down.