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putting my foot down

4 years ago

ok... thats it, I'm fucking done with people constantly trying to get me to roleplay, its always this whole thing where its like they randomly message me out of the blue, and if I respond, its either they ask "wanna rp" or they just do it with me for no context, I'm sick and tired of it, its honestly starting to take a serious toll on my mental health, looking at these people who just treat me like a tool to satisfy their "need" for vore stuff and then harass me for more when I tell them no, and when I do tell them no, or "I'm tired" for example, and then go to sleep for a few hours, AS SOON as I wake up, their back in my DMs looking for it

thats why I'M NO LONGER DOING ROLEPLAY FOR ANYONE WHO ASKS ME FOR IT, WEATHER DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY

I will ONLY do it when I feel like it, yes, even if it means not continuing scenarios I started a week ago and then forgot about, and yes, even if its from a friend, if I don't want it, you won't have it, so there

17 Comments

ChristopherDavies ~christopherdavies

horse time

4 years ago

Ugh…I’ve dealt with people like that, and it’s so frustrating. One of the MANY reasons I don’t rp that much anymore. It’s just certain people that I’ll rp with.

Keldi ~keldi

part Dragon, part Zorgoia

4 years ago

its just been bearing down on me soooo much these days, I feel like I'm being used because I'm a big cuddly pred

ChristopherDavies ~christopherdavies

horse time

4 years ago

Same. I used to enjoy it. But some people would over step certain boundaries. I literally felt like I was nothing more than a form of perverted entertainment for them to jerk off to. They never really cared. For example, last year, a horse I had bonded with and used to care for miscarried her foal and died. I was devastated, and asked everyone not to ask me to rp that day. One guy opens up with “Hey, hun” and rubs my character’s belly. I just blocked him without a word.

I was not put on this Earth for anyone’s sexual entertainment. I’d love to have a decent conversation with people without devolving into “uwu eat me"

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Keldi ~keldi

part Dragon, part Zorgoia

4 years ago

I hope so too... but I'm just burned out of this whole thing, its made me feel very isolated to be honest, surrounded by people who would rather see the inside of my mouth then hold an actual conversation with me

SomeRandomHooman ~somerandomhooman

The mommy connoisseur

4 years ago

Yeah.. I'm really sorry honestly that you have to go through this especially, I understand how stressful it is to see just the request to randomly roleplay, especially when at an inappropriate time. I've had someone say that when they were dealing with the passing of someone close, some friend decided to ask for a rp. The one being asked denied and explained the situation of the passing of a family member. The one requesting simply said something like "Ah damn, so when do you wanna rp?". All I can say is that both never talked after that again. But enough of that, I really hope you don't have much more experiences like these again, it's gonna happen, yes. But hopefully not as often..

Keldi ~keldi

part Dragon, part Zorgoia

4 years ago

yea, I get this happening alot, people coming into my dms at random intervals and asking me if I'm "still busy" like I should be at their beckoned call sadly. its playing a huge part in my stress

SomeRandomHooman ~somerandomhooman

The mommy connoisseur

4 years ago

I'm sorry that it is.. It's really a little problematic when people can't see it's not the right time and should wait a little longer for this at least. Or maybe just wait until you yourself feel up for it

Noivern0226 ~thatonemelon

Mediocre Pen User

4 years ago

I feel you bro, dealt with this before in the past. do what you wanna do to be happy

Keldi ~keldi

part Dragon, part Zorgoia

4 years ago

thank you sole X3

Unex ~unex

Digital Artist

4 years ago

Sorry to hear people have been so annoying with RP requests with you. Taking a solid stance like this is definitely the best call.

Keldi ~keldi

part Dragon, part Zorgoia

4 years ago

yea, though its not really made much of a dent yet, at least not as much as directly telling the people doing it to fuck off

Arcaneus ~mr.arcaneus

The Fabulous Serpent

4 years ago

Very relatable its why I only really rp with friends at this point and even then I still rarely do such. Too many people simply just want vore rather than to actually get to know you as a person.

Keldi ~keldi

part Dragon, part Zorgoia

4 years ago

this is so true, not just here, but anywhere relating to anything generally seen as a fetish

Rubinelle ~ronintalbain

Ever-Present Shadow Hunter

4 years ago

Some people just don't have the common decency to be people these days. Even i've had people who say hello, and then immediately ask me to roleplay. And its not like I don't know what they're after, so I usually ask what they want, and then SOME are honest about it. But if people can't respect your preferences...Well...I dunno what to say.

Keldi ~keldi

part Dragon, part Zorgoia

4 years ago

yea... had this happen alot to me too, someone asked me to rp once and at that point I was in the mood for it so I said sure

little did I know he was gonna turn around and say he was exited to be turned into "zorgoia remains"

I promptly told him to get a life and blocked him

Rubinelle ~ronintalbain

Ever-Present Shadow Hunter

4 years ago

Yikes...its never been THAT bad for me. But, people want their free porn. Better if its from someone popular if they can flaunt it. I dunno, people are twisted and think the most disgusting things are somehow acceptable. Its always baffled me how people can treat another person like a piece of meat to be used and discarded when they're satisfied. So bravo for putting your foot down.

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