Do any of you have any direct, personal experience with.....
3 years ago
Tiny homes? I don't want to get into detail but my current situation is pretty terrible and I need my own space or I will literally either go crazy, take a long walk off a short pier, or disappear into the wilderness and become a hermit. I'm presently side-eyeing tiny homes because they seem like a viable option. I know I'd need to buy a plot of land and bring in plumbing or septic and electricity but beyond that, I know next to nothing. I've never owned my own home... unless you count the condo I was summarily chased out of by homophobes ten years ago. I got to experience homeownership for all of like.... a day before they ran us out.
Anyway. Tiny homes. Thoughts?
Or any other options. I'm all ears. Though, I should note that renting is not an option. Been there. Done that. Never again. And I can't really afford a proper house anywhere in NY except really far north which isn't an option because it's basically just rural Texas up there and fuck that. I need decent internet for my work and I don't think they even have Fiber up there yet. I can't leave NY either because they have affordable healthcare I depend on.
So yeah. That's where we're at.
Edit: Oh and just to be clear, I'm not in imminent danger. I'm not being beaten or abused. TBH, I've been in that situation and what I'm dealing with now is as bad or worse in some ways but I'm not in physical danger. So I don't need an emergency couch to land on. I'm looking for tenable long-term solutions.
Anyway. Tiny homes. Thoughts?
Or any other options. I'm all ears. Though, I should note that renting is not an option. Been there. Done that. Never again. And I can't really afford a proper house anywhere in NY except really far north which isn't an option because it's basically just rural Texas up there and fuck that. I need decent internet for my work and I don't think they even have Fiber up there yet. I can't leave NY either because they have affordable healthcare I depend on.
So yeah. That's where we're at.
Edit: Oh and just to be clear, I'm not in imminent danger. I'm not being beaten or abused. TBH, I've been in that situation and what I'm dealing with now is as bad or worse in some ways but I'm not in physical danger. So I don't need an emergency couch to land on. I'm looking for tenable long-term solutions.
1. are you okay with shortened, slightly more cramped spaces?
2. do you own any pets?
3. does the tiny home you are thinking of purchasing have good property protection? (especially with it being new york)
4. do you plan to live alone or with others?
5. do you own a lot of stuff?
these were things i did NOT consider before living in one, and it definitely effected my view of them XD
they can be nice, but also come with their own downsides.
A: I think so. I'm not claustrophobic or anything like that.
Q: do you own any pets?
A: Just one 10lb cat. Do you think that would be a problem?
Q: does the tiny home you are thinking of purchasing have good property protection? (especially with it being new york)
A: I don't have anything specific in mind yet. I'm just thinking about it.
Q: do you plan to live alone or with others?
A: My situation is.... uh.... odd...... and complicated. I would be living alone but I would also have to procure living spaces for other people but that's another matter. For myself, personally, I'd be living alone.
Q: do you own a lot of stuff?
A: Nothing I'm not okay parting with. Basically all I need is my computer, a TV for my PS4, and maybe a few pieces of furniture.
A: Just one 10lb cat. Do you think that would be a problem?"
Definitely, but potentially a solvable problem. Cats get bored and like some room to run around. Aside from that, you do not want to share a space that small with a litter box. However, both of these problems can be helped by adding a 'catio' to the tiny home.
Make sure you check local laws about tiny homes before buying property. Some places are less than friendly towards them.
Be aware of your own need for space and physical limitations.
And if you find an amazing bargain on a pre-existing house, for the love of all that is holy, hire a qualified inspector and never accept the agent's word about the inspection results. Get it from the horse's mouth. Also bear in mind that the "handyman" an ad refers to is very often a demolition contractor. This wasn't your intended direction in any case, but it could crop up and look awfully attractive in the moment.
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It might be a good idea to have a tiny home that you can try out without buying. Either as an AirBnB type of thing or short term lease. I know you said that you didn't want to rent, but thought may it would work for a very short time.
1) Are there any laws in the area that you want to move that ma restrict you due to minimum square footage, all homes are required to be grid tied/connected to city water/sewer?
2) There may be additional costs to run any utilities that you can't provide for yourself (connecting to the electric grid vs using solar & batteries).
My brother and I lived in a mobile home (that someone had pretended was a ranch house) for ten years. We had to renovate it with a backhoe when the roofs started to let go, but it was a cheap fix during that time.
It was an older place built in the 30's I believe? So I can't really remark on what a new building would be like but I can talk about my experience
Id say for one person a tiny house is perfect. it was actually pretty comfortable as long as it was just me. When you start adding others you will find that you have little to no privacy, so if you're someone that enjoys alone time maybe keep that in the back of your mind.
our electric bill was always pretty low, I think in part because of the very low ceiling. I could put my full palm on it and I'm not very tall.
There was always a lot of yard work (we lived in town so lots of mowing and trimming the grass) Not bad if you don't mind it.
I did miss getting an actual bath, the space was really only big enough for a shower, so no tub.
We had our laundry room in the same room as our 'kitchen' that room was always a mess, more so when I had company move in.
definitely consider downsizing any big collections you have and think hard about storage. You're going to want it, stuff like bins kept under the beds is super nice.
other than that... hmmm
I had to clean a lot. I think in the smaller space any dust or clutter really stands out as a big mess.
there were good bits and bad bits as it is with any situation.
feel free to ask me more ^^; I'll try to be helpful
Yup. That's basically a fundamental aspect of my nature. XD Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't say I'm antisocial, but I definitely need my me/alone time.
"I did miss getting an actual bath, the space was really only big enough for a shower, so no tub."
Yeah, I really like baths but I haven't had one in ages. I can't because the people I live with are really nasty in ways you probably don't want to hear about. So I'm fine coping with showers.
"definitely consider downsizing any big collections you have and think hard about storage. You're going to want it, stuff like bins kept under the beds is super nice."
I'm not really a "stuff" kinda person. Only things I really need are my PC, a TV for my PS4, and maybe a few pieces of furniture. Anything else I have can go.
I have a small, 10 lb dog that did well in it. He was able to get out and play in the yard for exercise when needed.
Personally, if it wasn't for me having a bunch of collectibles, I'd probably still be in it. It can have its challenges, but we'll worth the saving of tike and money that comes with owning a house.
Some of the negatives were primarily with heating and cooling. In the summers, I'd have to run the ac pretty much all the time to make it cool enough to be comfy. In the winter, I had to wrap the pipes to keep them from freezing amd constantly run heat and fill propane bottles for the heaters. I'd make sure, if you can, that either the house or trailer is set up for natural gas or get a couple larger propane bottles for winter.
Well, shit. That's a concern. Weather is a sticking point for me. Too much over 70f and I overhead. Too much under 50f and my fingers will literally get so cold that I physically cannot do my work. Damn.... Well, good to know. Thanks.
But I know how cold and warm NY can get. My dad's family is from upstate NY and I've been there through the hot and cold times.
Good luck in your search!
Also, zoning and other local ordinances need close attention, because some places are codified to be hostile to tiny homes for various reasons.
Well... that's concerning. Jeez. Sometimes I feel like I can't catch a damn break. I just want a friggen place to live that isn't going to bankrupt me. Ughcskldfksdfkjsndf
I'm sure you can find somewhere that's good for you with a little careful searching!
So i'm not sure what the price equates to, but there's tiny homes or prebuilt tiny cabins, either way they can be so lovely and I think it's a nice way to live if you have the interest in it.
I went as far as getting quotes and site estimates. We ended up going in a different direction only due to the shape of our lot and location of our well. The existing lot would not allow for the Deltech floor plan we wanted.
The blue structure is the new house. The red shed is my wife's home office. : https://www.furaffinity.net/view/31196956/
In a suitable climate which is well sheltered, I think they have potential to be a great choice.
I've been considering doing that myself, mainly because I have been trying to get a full house, and it's been an absolute nightmare JUST getting pre-approval for a mortgage... even with no debt, a high credit score, and a sizeable downpayment.
If you want to remain stationary, tiny homes are often very expensive, even buying used. Travel trailers are nearly the same and most tiny homes are mounted, anyway. If you manage to purchase one and set up septic and whatnot, all it takes is a little creativity. For instance, the few rooms must be multipurpose. Buy a folding 4" mattress or shikibuton. Your desk is also your kitchen table, and wall mounts will be your best friend. No need for a dresser; buy a wide ottoman and it also doubles as a couch! Etc.
It's a lifestyle that embraces frugality and that good old do-it-yourself spirit that most Americans have lost decades ago, so be prepared for it to not be the most comfortable life.
The many benefits of tiny houses comes with a decent list of downsides. They're cheaper to heat and cool, if you want to go off-the-grid, and they have smaller electrical panels and simpler wiring, since they obviously use less power. Wind turbines and solar generators aren't going to truly replace the grid, even on a good day, but the efficiency of small homes will save you a ton of money.
The biggest problems with them is storage and significant others. Personally, I found that living with less stuff made life more enjoyable. I realized that half of my clothes were redundant, that I never watched my DVDs and that I had 1 TV too many.
I noticed that you are open to moving around NY. Have you considered RV living or are you set on a tiny house? I have personal experience with both.
It's cheaper to build a tiny house from a kit than to buy a prefab, some of which easily run as high as $60,000+. Not sure what the market looks like now, since it was pre-Covid when I was still into it. The average was $40,000 for a tiny house prefab built on a trailer frame, which is still double the cost per square foot when compared to a pre-existing conventional house. Inflation has complicated everything even more.
That being said, there are 3 realistic options for a tiny house, if you skip hunting down a used RV or a travel trailer.
1. Prefabs. Easier for you but the most expensive. Builders usually make the houses more luxurious for obvious reasons. Delivery will be by tractor trailer (my profession) and delivery will probably be another $4,000-6,000 by itself, due to diesel costs, cargo insurance, etc. Locations will also need to be semi-truck friendly, physically and legally.
2. Construction. This option will let you choose from a ton of cool and unique floor plans, and a good crew can help you really customize your tiny house even further, but then, of course, you have to deal with zoning laws, permits and all that fun construction stuff. This is an excellent website for floor plans, should you decide you want to build.
https://www.houseplans.com/collecti.....ny-house-plans
3. Kit house. This is the cheapest option, with pre-made house kits ranging anywhere from $8,000 to $25,000 depending on quality and amenities. You can build it yourself or hire a crew. More things can go wrong but if you're on a budget, it's your best option. There are so many kit builds from so many people that the list would be mountainous, which you've probably already learned through Google searches.
Personally, I visited a few dealers in North Carolina some years back and checked out the prefab-on-wheels options. I ended up using a 25' Class A (bus style) RV because I could move it and it didn't cost $30,000. Also, I'm not much of a do-it-yourselfer.
If you have any questions about specifics, I'm always available and I'll do my best to help you. :3
Also where in NY are you, and if necessary, how far would you consider moving I am also in NY and some areas are definitely more affordable.
Also, found this:
https://cozeliving.com/tiny-houses/
The smallest home we ever did was about 800sf cabins and it was cozy but not lacking space. I actually was in a 70sf home and that was TOO small.
RVs come in 3 sizes, but class 'a' campers are 270sf. So I'd recommend you go to an RV dealer, and take a tour of Class A campers and see what you think. Then think that 270x2 (if you got two, connected together) that'll be 540 sf.
Another concept is where a home is. In some parts of Kentucky (Eastern) I'm seeing land + 800 sf cabin, around $40k.
But another idea is: a used home. Check out an old home you get cheap. (3 ways; tax sale, foreclosure, or a very old one.) Just make sure to get a home inspection, then with your home loan, make sure you put in a new roof, new electrical, HVAC, and plumbing into the loan.
That way you've got the most critical things fully replaced, then over time when you have the money fix it up a little at a time. Ultimately you'll have a really, really nice home at a fraction.
That's what I'm planning myself. Good luck!
Man.... that would be ideal.... just not in Kentucky. X3 I have to stay in NY. Besides, I don't think Kentucky's climate and political environment would suit me. Still though.... NGL, that's tempting.
That way you've got the most critical things fully replaced, then over time when you have the money fix it up a little at a time. Ultimately you'll have a really, really nice home at a fraction.
If it's not a bother, and you can remember to, I'd love to know how that ends up working out for you.
We will have a lot of built ins to save floor space, any interior doors will be barn style, meaning they roll along the wall rather than swinging in and out, and we are planning everything to be multi-function or to be smaller. We are buying appliances that are meant for tiny spaces, and putting in a under-sink water heater to save space.
We have opted to spend more on bigger windows (both light and fire escape in case of flamage), but will be able to save money on flooring and interior paint because it's a smaller space, so that's a bonus.
We also got a bar sink for the bathroom, it is mounted on the wall, so a small stool can fit underneath, and will have a recessed mirror and all storage will be either wall mounted or recessed.
Basically it's awesome, if you're prepared to pare down somewhat, and it IS an adjustment! But it can also be fun and a good way to rethink your workable space around you.
Good luck!
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Hope this helps!
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Aesthetically, I think I'd prefer something like this: https://cdn.vox-cdn.com/thumbor/PYO.....filters:format(jpeg)/cdn.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/19499595/small_storage_xl.jpg
Or this: https://styleblueprint.com/wp-conte.....25-feature.jpg
But at the end of the day, beggars can't be choosers and I can imagine being happy with a Boxabl home. Definitely putting that on my list of potential options.
You should also look at... no idea what the proper term is, but when people lose property to defaulting on loans, those get auctioned off often very cheap, way under their value. Of course, other people know this too so you will have competition, and need to get a bit lucky.
Either way what is CRUCIAL is to thoroughly inspect any property you plan to buy because you don't want to end up buying it and then discovering some problem that will cost a shitton of money to address, such as leaky pipes, mold, etc. Especially if the property seems cheap.
As for living in tiny places, I guess all the places I lived in count as tiny by American standards. My only problem was never having enough space for my stuff, so I end up with boxes and things piled up on top of wardrobes, and sometimes on the floor too. An advantage is that - assuming the insulation is acceptable - they are not too expensive to heat.
Cats though, they normally need space to move around. Having a garden is best for them. Especially if they are a bit overweight. And as someone mentioned, litterboxes can SMELL. Last time we had to keep a cat indoors due to recovery from surgery, every time he pooped I had to take care of it ASAP and then open the windows. :| A good enclosed litterbox with a filter and sealing door helps somewhat though.
I love my cat but goddamn if that lil bitch can't stir up some topnotch STANK. XC If I do end up going with a tinyhome, I'm thinking about a closed catbox with a flap. Also, there's this baking soda-based deodorizer that goes a long way towards reducing STANK. As for space, kitty-highway and catio are the best I can think of.
As for movement, one of my friends takes their cat for walks with a harness and leash. :D Unorthodox, but work well for them. :)
The only advice I can give is you need a spacer or really anything to split up the living area. Small spaces can work, but having your bed across the room from a workstation will screw up your mental health quite quickly and equally gravely. You probably already know, but still.
Also, haven't heard from you in a hot minute. Thought you might have left FA.
Haven't left, just been lurking for a while. Very little motivation/inspiration to draw for quite some time.