Tamias is currently in the hospital
2 years ago
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Fur Affinity: http://www.furaffinity.net/user/tamias6/
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Fur Affinity: http://www.furaffinity.net/user/tamias6/
Devient Art: http://tamias6.deviantart.com/
Sofurry: https://tamiasthechipmunk.sofurry.com/
Weasyl: https://www.weasyl.com/~tamiasthechipmunk
Inkbunny: https://inkbunny.net/tamiasthechipmunk
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/tamiasthec.....nk.bsky.social
Hello every fuzzy floofer. This is Phloppy Bunny here (Tamias's fiancee) with some bad news.
Tamias has been in the hospital for the past 3 days, and had to have surgery to remove his gall bladder.
He had a total of TWENTY gall stones, the gall bladder was very inflamed, and was starting to get gangrene.
So, yes... there's ZERO question about it, his gall bladder HAD to come it. Otherwise, It's possible if it was left unchecked for too long, he might not have survived.
On his first night of hospital stay, I was fortunate enough to have the hospital let me stay with him all night long, and into the next morning in my efforts to try to quell his fears and be there for him as his soul mate as best I could.
Last night marked the first time i had a proper sleep since this happened. Because, for nearly about the first 48 hours after things began, and me spending the night with him at the hospital, I got barely a wink of sleep.
Of course, it doesn't exactly help matters that I normally have bad sleep habits anyway.
But, anyway, yes. For about the first nearly 48 hours after these matters started happening, I had maybe like about barely 4 and half hours of sleep in the first roughly 48 hours.
And, I have to say that I'm feeling VERY frustrated that something like this happened to someone as wonderful as Tamias is.
He really IS my EVERYTHING in this entire world. And, I really could not imagine how miserable my life would feel if I didn't have him in my life anymore.
Don't get me wrong here. Tamias IS of course very much alive. And he IS recuperating. But, there is also follow-up processes that they have to put him through now after removing his gall bladder.
Well, actually, they removed most of it, btw. Not quite all. But, the point is, they have to make sure that things in that area inside of him are draining properly.
They talked about maybe putting a stent in, and other stuff.
Later today, I'll go see him at the hospital again. And, I was pretty pissed at Tamias's dad for not letting me stay an additional 15 minutes longer (until 10PM last night) when we visited Tamias at the hospital.
His dad wouldn't understand since he's not the one in a long term relationship with Tamias. *points to myself* I AM!!!
But, because his dad was my ride, I had no choice but to listen to Baby Boomer guy, and leave with him to head back home last night.
On a side note here, I first mulled over whether or not I wanted to write about this matter here in Tamias's journal.
A couple of reasons why I say that...
First of all, when compared to certain other furry art sites I could name, I REALLY have come to despise this place, many of It's users, and the whole craptacular way it is all ran by one purple scalie egomaniac, and his cult of simps, cucks, white knights, and other shameless butt kissers.
Second of all... like many furries, both Tamias and I have our share of adversaries in this fandom of so-called "loving, tolerant, accepting" lovers of cute animal characters.
So, I do have to believe that furs like that might actually even derive some sort of sick, twisted, tolly-lulzy pleasure from hearing that the guy I love has been in VERY poor health as of late, and has been spending recent days in the hospital.
I have been writing about this matter a little bit elsewhere, off of FA, on Tamias's other online fronts... As well as on my own journal that exists on another furry art website that I will not be naming here.
The real point here though is that as I said, Tamias is in the hospital, he had most of his gall bladder removed, and is going to have more follow-up process done, including more surgery today, if I'm not mistaken.
So, for any furs that GENUINELY happen to ACTUALLY care about Tamias FOR REAL... and, NOT about Tamias's furry art drawing skills, or his fursuit, or even about Tamias's fursona, but about the ACTUAL human being behind Tamias, I just wanted to let you know of these matters going on with Tamias.
It's just not the same around this house without Tamias in it. And, these matters that have happened have slowly started putting me in a pretty bad place in my mind as of late.
It was made all the worse for me when I thought of this sad scene from an old animated movie that perhaps bears some small similarity to the things going on for me and Tamias right now...
Tamias has been in the hospital for the past 3 days, and had to have surgery to remove his gall bladder.
He had a total of TWENTY gall stones, the gall bladder was very inflamed, and was starting to get gangrene.
So, yes... there's ZERO question about it, his gall bladder HAD to come it. Otherwise, It's possible if it was left unchecked for too long, he might not have survived.
On his first night of hospital stay, I was fortunate enough to have the hospital let me stay with him all night long, and into the next morning in my efforts to try to quell his fears and be there for him as his soul mate as best I could.
Last night marked the first time i had a proper sleep since this happened. Because, for nearly about the first 48 hours after things began, and me spending the night with him at the hospital, I got barely a wink of sleep.
Of course, it doesn't exactly help matters that I normally have bad sleep habits anyway.
But, anyway, yes. For about the first nearly 48 hours after these matters started happening, I had maybe like about barely 4 and half hours of sleep in the first roughly 48 hours.
And, I have to say that I'm feeling VERY frustrated that something like this happened to someone as wonderful as Tamias is.
He really IS my EVERYTHING in this entire world. And, I really could not imagine how miserable my life would feel if I didn't have him in my life anymore.
Don't get me wrong here. Tamias IS of course very much alive. And he IS recuperating. But, there is also follow-up processes that they have to put him through now after removing his gall bladder.
Well, actually, they removed most of it, btw. Not quite all. But, the point is, they have to make sure that things in that area inside of him are draining properly.
They talked about maybe putting a stent in, and other stuff.
Later today, I'll go see him at the hospital again. And, I was pretty pissed at Tamias's dad for not letting me stay an additional 15 minutes longer (until 10PM last night) when we visited Tamias at the hospital.
His dad wouldn't understand since he's not the one in a long term relationship with Tamias. *points to myself* I AM!!!
But, because his dad was my ride, I had no choice but to listen to Baby Boomer guy, and leave with him to head back home last night.
On a side note here, I first mulled over whether or not I wanted to write about this matter here in Tamias's journal.
A couple of reasons why I say that...
First of all, when compared to certain other furry art sites I could name, I REALLY have come to despise this place, many of It's users, and the whole craptacular way it is all ran by one purple scalie egomaniac, and his cult of simps, cucks, white knights, and other shameless butt kissers.
Second of all... like many furries, both Tamias and I have our share of adversaries in this fandom of so-called "loving, tolerant, accepting" lovers of cute animal characters.
So, I do have to believe that furs like that might actually even derive some sort of sick, twisted, tolly-lulzy pleasure from hearing that the guy I love has been in VERY poor health as of late, and has been spending recent days in the hospital.
I have been writing about this matter a little bit elsewhere, off of FA, on Tamias's other online fronts... As well as on my own journal that exists on another furry art website that I will not be naming here.
The real point here though is that as I said, Tamias is in the hospital, he had most of his gall bladder removed, and is going to have more follow-up process done, including more surgery today, if I'm not mistaken.
So, for any furs that GENUINELY happen to ACTUALLY care about Tamias FOR REAL... and, NOT about Tamias's furry art drawing skills, or his fursuit, or even about Tamias's fursona, but about the ACTUAL human being behind Tamias, I just wanted to let you know of these matters going on with Tamias.
It's just not the same around this house without Tamias in it. And, these matters that have happened have slowly started putting me in a pretty bad place in my mind as of late.
It was made all the worse for me when I thought of this sad scene from an old animated movie that perhaps bears some small similarity to the things going on for me and Tamias right now...
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