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Hermit Crab, focus in social life reduction
a year ago
As in lately I found out that less and less people actually do care, unless I contact them, about me. They're in their happy little bubbles, with their families not caring about things and as soon as I turn my back to focus on my private life, I do hear their doors shut behind me, without giving a second thought about me.
What I'm about to do, ... well ... not everybody is going to like it. I'll become hard to reach. As I'm planning on moving into my own apartment within the near future, I'll become more independent in life hooray. That also brings out that I'll be building my own little bubble. As relationships never went well for me, I'll most likely focus within my bubble rebuilding myself in my own desired happiness, doing the things I desire to do, as well as building personal goals to improve myself further along my private life.
What does this mean for my social life in general? Basically it's personal DEATH. As a lot of people went quiet on me, I've decided to cut contact. If you're at least balls enough to re-send me a friend request, congratulation, you've bigger balls then those who don't even approach me anymore.
So as I'm talking what are exactly my next steps in going to be a hermit crab?
- Facebook reduction of friends, down to a bare minimum, until I can shut down my facebook for good. I'll keep the account but thats it.
- Instagram reduction and downgrading, I was always lazy posting there and mainly scrolling reels. I'll go silent I won't delete it though.
- other social media, silenting down, will stay with the accounts but as well inactive.
- Messengers are a huge sensible topic for me, as this was the reason why I was nearly all the time in contact.
Basically answering within an hour or less. I'm mass deleting chats of people that are going more and more quiet on me or only had single encounters. If you come up "Hey you deleted everything" or "Hey you unfriended me on..." to me, I'll be more or likely straight forward tell you "Yeah, its because you don't seem to like to care for contact." unless you're unbalanced and come up every few hours towards me, trying to scrape me out of my den. Thats a big no no as well. As much as focusing on your own problems all the time "Wdym you've problems as well?" DUH.
- Also if you always come up with weird stuff and are horny 24/7 leave it. Every living being can only bear so much, until it gets annoying. Same with the jokes, you've made so much puns they get out like dry smelly farts, no one is going to laugh at them, srsly.
- I think I'll also finally go over my watched list and starting to sort out inactive artists and accounts along the way, unless they're memorial and were friends of mine. Or they're just super lazy and still participate in furry fandom. As well as I'll sort out artist which style of art simply doesn't apply to my desired needs anymore.
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tl;dr I'll be focusing on my well being and will mass delete a lot of contacts who went silent on me. Those who are going to disappear, not going to read this anyways. So it's just for myself and those who want to know and still care about me <3
Dune over aaaaand out~
What I'm about to do, ... well ... not everybody is going to like it. I'll become hard to reach. As I'm planning on moving into my own apartment within the near future, I'll become more independent in life hooray. That also brings out that I'll be building my own little bubble. As relationships never went well for me, I'll most likely focus within my bubble rebuilding myself in my own desired happiness, doing the things I desire to do, as well as building personal goals to improve myself further along my private life.
What does this mean for my social life in general? Basically it's personal DEATH. As a lot of people went quiet on me, I've decided to cut contact. If you're at least balls enough to re-send me a friend request, congratulation, you've bigger balls then those who don't even approach me anymore.
So as I'm talking what are exactly my next steps in going to be a hermit crab?
- Facebook reduction of friends, down to a bare minimum, until I can shut down my facebook for good. I'll keep the account but thats it.
- Instagram reduction and downgrading, I was always lazy posting there and mainly scrolling reels. I'll go silent I won't delete it though.
- other social media, silenting down, will stay with the accounts but as well inactive.
- Messengers are a huge sensible topic for me, as this was the reason why I was nearly all the time in contact.
Basically answering within an hour or less. I'm mass deleting chats of people that are going more and more quiet on me or only had single encounters. If you come up "Hey you deleted everything" or "Hey you unfriended me on..." to me, I'll be more or likely straight forward tell you "Yeah, its because you don't seem to like to care for contact." unless you're unbalanced and come up every few hours towards me, trying to scrape me out of my den. Thats a big no no as well. As much as focusing on your own problems all the time "Wdym you've problems as well?" DUH.
- Also if you always come up with weird stuff and are horny 24/7 leave it. Every living being can only bear so much, until it gets annoying. Same with the jokes, you've made so much puns they get out like dry smelly farts, no one is going to laugh at them, srsly.
- I think I'll also finally go over my watched list and starting to sort out inactive artists and accounts along the way, unless they're memorial and were friends of mine. Or they're just super lazy and still participate in furry fandom. As well as I'll sort out artist which style of art simply doesn't apply to my desired needs anymore.
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tl;dr I'll be focusing on my well being and will mass delete a lot of contacts who went silent on me. Those who are going to disappear, not going to read this anyways. So it's just for myself and those who want to know and still care about me <3
Dune over aaaaand out~
all hermit crab. But ultimately you do have to focus on yourself and your own happiness above all else. So I think what you're doing is a good idea, do whatever you can to make yourself happier and healthier. So good for you in making this decision, and I wish you well.