In relationships these days but it ain't old school real and healthy love. I believe in old fashioned love. The wife serves, supports, makes the man feel strong, valued, powerful, but also him safe to be open, and vulnerable emotionally without ever throwing those vulnerabilities back in his face. Hes More than just a wallet and dildo. As for the man, the man should give almost the same, but the masculine version, protection, security, sheltering embrace. The wife isn't just a pussy, but a gem, his queen, vulnerable to him, at his mercy, so dominant, protective, and loving mercy is what he gives. There should be mutual give and take, and a respect that goes deeper than money. A desire to comfort and be there for the best AND worst of times. Should enjoy their company and time above all else. No that doesn't mean only them, it's important to maintain friendships too. But the time of your partner is highest. There should be value in each other deeper than wealth and lust.

For real, idk wtf most are doing these days but it's not that. It's playing games and treating people like toys in a chest or boxed lunches. Have enough of that one and ya throw it away. Oh there's some imperfections on this one, yeet. Just, no. That's not a relationship. This one isn't as shiny as this one, I want shiny. Getting rid of coal so close to being a diamond, unwilling to help eachother and aid in making eachother shine, to chase after someone who looks or seems better but is honestly just clean glass. Hit a bump and run away cause it's easier to hermit or Start again than it is to be patient and get through a momentary challenge with them. That's not a relationship. In old fashioned real, you fight for eachother, not against. You don't throw them away unless there is zero chance they'll change or evidence that they don't want to. That is the only time it's acceptable to walk away. That also demands communication if you have any respect at all for them, and if you don't, then you never cared in the 1st place and are a problem you* need to fix. Don't string em along cause you get something, or just cut them loose to wonder what they did wrong cause that's easier than communicating you're unhappy or there's a problem not getting fixed that needs to be.
"Oh but if they're not perfect they aren't for me". No. That's a bullshit excuse and logic. Perfection does not exist. They can be close, but guess what, a real relationship is a garden and both need to tend to it. That's old fashioned. I believe in that also. Idk about the rest of yall out in the world. You tend to that garden to make it perfect when you both feel they're worthy of that effort. Don't be lazy or a coward and yeet it cause it's not perfect right away.... okay, I'm done ranting. Got a little off there. Yeah, old fashioned real, healthy love, effort, I believe in that shit, and it needs to make a comeback. Too many out there playing making people a fucking mess, and making a mess of your own lives without even knowing it yet. How yall making a mess and not knowing it? Cause down the line, you will* realize way back when, you threw away something good to pursue something better, and by the time you learn that, that person you threw away, hopefully picked themselves up and went and found better, and the effort they deserved, so you're high and dry with nothing but regret for playing the game.