I've Moved | Chance of delay with comms/replies
2 weeks ago
Hello everybody
Just a short note for those who doesn't feel like reading further:
I deeply apologize for currently being incapable of drawing due to mental break regarding my moving away from my family house. It might take me a bit more time to finish Inktober slots and reply the DMs.
I'll send you a DM personally to ask for extra 1-2 days for the Inktober comms. If I don't reply, please give me 1-2 days.
I WON'T NEED MORE THAN 1-2 EXTRA DAYS.
I apologize one more time and I appreciate your understanding.
And here is a longer story:
Today I've made a big step and moved to my own apartment.
This process was long, I've been moving stuff since summer. I was excited as everything was made by me and for me here, at my new place. I was bringing things, buying plates and cups, inviting friends. It was fun, I was inspired as hell!..
But it was long. I knew I made it last longer and longer, still staying at my parents'. I knew it was hard for my Dad to let me go, so he tried his best to persuade me to stay, but I knew I must leave, so I planned my leave on today, October 23rd. I packed my last things like laptop and iPad, took all the stuff that was still kept in my drawers and suddenly understood I cannot stop crying.
I cried all night. I cried all morning. My Mom cried.
We're like an Italian family, but very small. It's just my Dad, Mom, our cat and I. My parents find peace in sitting at home, they don't travel a lot, they don't go out with friends. We were just us, always together, living in one place, having the same routine, family breakfasts, lunches and dinners. We were always together.
But I knew I have to go.
I don't live far away, it's just 30-minute walk from my place to theirs, but I can't stop crying.
For 26 years I was with my Mom and Dad who love me a lot.
I know people might say I'm adult trash who can't fucking separate from parents, but it turned out to be really hard. I didn't expect that. I know I'm independent, I make my own living, I'm well-organized, I can cook, I tend to clean everything, but... why is it so hard? I can't stop crying even now when I'm typing this.
I know we all shall be alright, we just need some time, all of us.
Thank you for you understanding. I hope I'll be able to return to work ASAP.
FA+

I hope things settle well for you and your parents aswell. Its rather heartwarming to read this!
Thank you so much for your support <3
Anyway, thank you for your support! <3 I hope it is not that hard for you to adapt after each moving around and you feel comfy where you're now :<
Oh no worries, I've been here in the place I'm currently at for about 4+ years now so hopefully this should be it for awhile. :3
I still live with my parents and I'm only one year younger than you. I live a similar lifestyle to yours where we're all rather close and we're all each other have, so I completely understand your heartbreak and why you'd be crying. Please take all the time you need; adjustments to your new life may take a bit longer than anticipated, but just know we completely understand!
Thank you so much for your support <3 I'm glad to know you have awesome family too and I wish you tons of cool moments together <3