Saving the sane some time.
2 months ago
General
Karno's Rare-Because-He-Never-Has-Time Blather:
I've caught some of my more rational readers trying to gently argue red-hat cultists back to reality. This is a complete waste of time. You cannot reason a person out of a stance they did not reason themselves into. And no reasonable person would believe that a sociopathic, cretinous sex criminal con man is going to save them from whatever boogieman the con-job has been dangling on a string in front of them. Sociopaths only and ever care about themselves.
But pointing out this painfully obvious fact does no good. Carl Sagan tells us:
"If we've been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We're no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It's simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we've been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back"
And that's just the suckers who were dumb and/or desperate enough to swallow Prump's line of bullshit. A much darker faction are the folks who are perfectly aware that Prump is full of shit - and they LIKE the taste. Prump gives them license to be the hateful creeps they are in their not-so-secret hearts. It is necessary for them to pretend to believe in Prump's vicious lies, for those lies justify the murder and mayhem they wish to see inflicted on pretty much everyone who's not a fellow cult member.
So when you're trying to deprogram a red-hat cultist, you're most likely talking to a pea-brained sucker, an evil fascist wannabe, or an evil pea-brain. Did you think that patiently pointing out to them where they are demonstrably wrong, will cause them to slap their foreheads and go "DUH! Of course! You're right! How could I have been so stupid? Forgive me!"
Nope. They'll just keep repeating the latest Faux News propaganda like a parrot. Argument can only change the mind of a person who has a mind, and is capable of changing it. How many of the original Nazis admitted they might have been a little bit wrong after Germany was defeated and the death camps were exposed? G'wan, guess!
So when you finally give up in disgust, they'll crow that they "owned the libs". You can "debate" them if you have the time to waste, but be aware that passing the time is the only result you will ever reap from the effort.
But pointing out this painfully obvious fact does no good. Carl Sagan tells us:
"If we've been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We're no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It's simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we've been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back"
And that's just the suckers who were dumb and/or desperate enough to swallow Prump's line of bullshit. A much darker faction are the folks who are perfectly aware that Prump is full of shit - and they LIKE the taste. Prump gives them license to be the hateful creeps they are in their not-so-secret hearts. It is necessary for them to pretend to believe in Prump's vicious lies, for those lies justify the murder and mayhem they wish to see inflicted on pretty much everyone who's not a fellow cult member.
So when you're trying to deprogram a red-hat cultist, you're most likely talking to a pea-brained sucker, an evil fascist wannabe, or an evil pea-brain. Did you think that patiently pointing out to them where they are demonstrably wrong, will cause them to slap their foreheads and go "DUH! Of course! You're right! How could I have been so stupid? Forgive me!"
Nope. They'll just keep repeating the latest Faux News propaganda like a parrot. Argument can only change the mind of a person who has a mind, and is capable of changing it. How many of the original Nazis admitted they might have been a little bit wrong after Germany was defeated and the death camps were exposed? G'wan, guess!
So when you finally give up in disgust, they'll crow that they "owned the libs". You can "debate" them if you have the time to waste, but be aware that passing the time is the only result you will ever reap from the effort.
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I'm heartbroken to see how many people have gone down this road. And as you can guess, I had no luck trying to discuss it. I'm now virtually alone in my community. I've been working on making a plan to move, but when you have a workshop with about 10,000 pounds of tools, it's not something you can do easily.
This whole situation really blows.
The only reasonable course of action I saw was to get distance.
My comment here was a lamentation of the fact that they have rejected reality, and rejected human decency. Even if they weren't actively spewing this stuff all the time, could I say that we're not already split apart? When they think that I belong on the fringe of the world just because of who my partner is (someone they know and openly praise as being a wonderful person, by the way!), and they think that just being accused of being an illegal immigrant means that you deserve to be brutalized... I don't think there's any family left there anyway.
Not that everyone who labels follows an ideology, of course, but nearly everyone who follows an ideology is prone to label others, their own, or even themselves.
Yep, and that is a huge part of why many communities have a ban on politics: it divides people more than it unites them. Friends becomes foes, families splits apart, hatred spreads, one side blames the other.
And on the ICE thing... Both sides have valid arguments, but both sides are also wrong. Illegal immigrants are a problem, for the security of the neighborhood and the immigrant's very own. Down where I live, Brazil, there's a lot of immigrants, but either little or no background check, so there are spies from other countries infiltrated, goons from other latino drug cartels, "mule" (I hate using this term, for the record) from the Chinese Mafia, and more. So they have been supporting the crime...
However, let's talk about those who the Chinese Mafia sent down here to send them money back: they open small businesses, they help employment, they are nice, and they are now in a better situation than they were in their home country. I'd be upset if they were deported, specially if they were someone I used to know, I would think it would be unfair to send them back to hell... But at the same time I think they could have shown good faith, come clean and tried to legalize themselves.
Which takes me to... How I think the USA SHOULD handle illegal immigrants: give them the benefit of doubt a little, and a grace period for them to come clean and resolve their legal situation, and if they do not resolve then humanly deport them. Of course, background check and home country situation SHOULD be considered too. For example: given the current situation of Iran, if an illegal immigrant from there isn't causing trouble and their country is still effectively a warzone, give them asylum for the time being or look into other countries that also offer asylum.
I've seen several of the people you're talking about. A few of whom I've made the mistake of interacting with before recognizing the fact that they've got their heads so far up trumpie's ass that they can see daylight, that they're largely considered persona non grata in your comment sections.
It seems like you've been made a victim of a very common hang-up in the American psyche, particularly in the political tribal mindset: "Criticism of one side is automatic endorsement of the other."
And with our dysfunctional mono-party system, we've ended up with where we are now: Do-nothing-Dems are standing back, begging us not to defend ourselves from the boot, while hoping we do so they can vote in lockstep with the GOP to enforce martial law and send in the military to squash us. With the diddler in chief's party salivating for the chance to kick off a civil war among the voter base so they have an excuse to disarm everyone to "magnanimously" make the fighting stop. While the boot keeps kicking us in the face demanding we lick it.
I won't be too quiet about my right of center leanings and my overall disinterest in progressivism. However, regardless of ideology it is far too easy for people to fall into hero worship, cults of personality, and a general lack of critical thinking as well as an inability to take criticism of policies and stances as anything as a personal affront.
While I'm one of those unicorns who still has a neutral opinion on Trump from a policy perspective, I can point out I think he surrounds himself with sycophants and yes-men, and those people are either going to manipulate him into backing what -they- want instead of the American people, or they won't be willing to tell the Emperor that in fact he isn't wearing any clothes. I'm perfectly happy with the government taking the stance that, yes, the US government should put the needs of its citizens above foreign governments as well as corporations and that, yes, people who have entered the US illegally should not be here. However, I could do without the bombastic social media posts and developing a cult of personality.
At the same time, I'm not interested in convincing others that my stances and opinions are just that: stances and opinions. Again, think critically and follow what makes sense to you. It's not my business, and frankly I don't care what others think. I've made up my mind based on my personal values and my analysis of whatever topic is at hand. I don't expect everyone to come to the same conclusions and I don't have the mental energy to argue against willful ignorance and intellectual dishonesty; both of which is rife on both 'sides,' as it were.
I am just tired of it all, and sort of which there were more than the two alternatives.
Also, you should stop trying to bring out civil war as if it was something the left wishes for. We are not the ones trying to prevent elections from taking place.
"To live in this process is absolutely not to be able to notice it—please try to believe me—unless one has a much greater degree of political awareness, acuity, than most of us had ever had occasion to develop. Each step was so small, so inconsequential, so well explained or, on occasion, ‘regretted,’ that, unless one were detached from the whole process from the beginning, unless one understood what the whole thing was in principle, what all these ‘little measures’ that no ‘patriotic German’ could resent must some day lead to, one no more saw it developing from day to day than a farmer in his field sees the corn growing. One day it is over his head."
They can get what they voted for, my life and financial stability is more important to me.
If Republicans in North America are nazi, the Democrats in Latin America are what Time magazine once called Communazi, and in the end both sides proves to be the ultimate evil, seizing away the future, the freedom, the chance for development, all in the name of ideals led by Jesters wearing the crown, calling themselves "kings", "righteous ruler of the country".
And know what's worse? In Latin America, the democrats have the Three Powers dancing in their hands.
I bet your parents are proud of your "morals". But in reality, fence-sitting libertarians at the end are just useful idiots.
Also, commies do that as well, child trafficking and abuse network. It is a small part of what keeps drug cartels running.
I bet your parents are proud of your "morals". But in reality, you are just another politician's sock puppet.
Your "morals" blinds you, your "morals" that dictates only Republican and not-left-aligned people can commit evil enhances your moral myopia and illusion of being one of the so-called "good guys"
Because yours are not "morals": They are ideologies that you just consume without reflecting.
And I know how much of a mess my country is.
Why? Because I've always been worrying about others, caring about others even if it means caring less about myself, loving nature, questioning the "truth" of this world, willing to look for the truth myself, willing to learn, willing to make myself more useful... Among numerous things
Also, you know, Mahatma Gandhi was a "fence-sitting libertarian". What's your excuse now?
The truly sad thing is that these people are NOT part of the "in group" and never will be. Unless you were buddies with Epstein, you're an outsider, no matter how red your hat is, and you're just as vulnerable as everyone else. They just haven't gotten around to dealing with you yet.
Scams fall apart in the presence of the truth. In order to keep the scam going, you have to innoculate your victims against the truth, shield them from the truth. One of the more effective methods is to convince them that those offering the truth are not just lying, but EVIL. Monsters, villains who do evil things for cliched cartoon reasons.
"Don't listen to them," the refrain goes. "Don't listen to them, don't talk to them, and above else NEVER exchange information of any sort!" Because if you do, you run the risk of learning the truth... and in this case, the truth is that we're all being subjected to a "two-man con," where one side pretends to be your friend, while helping the other to fleece you.
With a particular twist: we're ALL being fleeced, and so which side you think is your "friend" depends on your beliefs... but make no mistake, they're all in it together. Trump's bad, but he's hardly uniquely bad. He's not even the worst of the lot.
And not the good kind of weird.
....that's capable of change. You're safe from all those annoying facts, and the logic that binds them together to make reality.
You might want to visit reality every now and then, though. That's where all the food and water is.
I used to believe the saying "ignorance is bliss," but I kept seeing people crashing and burning when their inexplicable choices ran smack up against the real world. So I've revised my personal philosophy to "stupid people create their own misery." They're just too clueless to connect the dots between cause and effect.
That's just par for the course for being firmly grounded in reality.
One of the sad effects of being firmly grounded in your reality is the denial aspect.
Facts change things BTW.
I do take issue with those deflecting from him by bringing up people with arguably the same amount of evidence of guilt to them (I believe every single adult on the list is guilty until shown otherwise.)
MAGA is NOT about Trump.
News outlets are often bought or polarized or ideological or any combination of the previous three. Particularly the ones that are put on television. They often seek polls that sells the idea that their side is winning, they often have a party they side with (and in multipartisan systems, that is either a specific party or a whole political side, more often the former than the later), they often distort the truth to humanize a criminal or dehumanize protesters, they are even willing to side with dictators if that keeps them running (whether by money or preventing them from being hunted). They cannot be fully trusted.
Always doubt news outlets, specially the bigger ones, do research instead, dig as many sources as possible to come closer to the truth.
And of course, sometimes the truth is very obvious, like Trump being a dictator (Heck, he's willing to negotiate with PUTIN out of all people!), or Maduro being a dictator (even the news outlets that once defended him and chastised USA's actions in Venezuela started recognizing him as a dictator as soon as he stood against USA), or the monocratic decisions of Alexandre de Moraes (which, for real, was an ongoing thing since 2022 that the news outlets played dumb despite the fact the constitution disagrees with them), but those would need people to be very blind to the truth to ignore.
# That reminds me: one time a game reviewer made a positive review about a game, but then a week later they suddenly changed their review into a MASSIVE hate rant at the publisher. While in itself it was a justified action (the publisher was known to push for crunch culture), the way the reviewer phrased it was far harsher than the truth (which a developer later disclosed that it was a tight deadline but they knew they could manage).
It’s sits outside of the mainstream, and the only way it’s made this much progress is by tricking fence sitters into fearing immigrants.
Lizbeth Medina
To start with.
I think you're right, sometimes it's not worth it to try; just tell the Trumpers what you think of them. Some of them may listen to reason if they're rejected by enough people.
Someone who is STILL supporting Blonald after everything that's come to light is someone who is very far gone.
I've read many a comment from people who voted for Trump, only some of which seemed to disapprove of the results, claiming they only did it because they knew it would get people angry, annoy a family member, or to 'own the libs'. In a few of these they openly said they knew Trump wasn't the best choice, but this was what drove them to do it anyway.
I wasn’t trying to change his mind. I was trying to figure out why he thinks the way he does. I think what he’d have to say would get him banned, and that’s why he’s so mum about it. The last question was a bit telling: Don’t ask someone if they’re “a [blank] too,” where in the blank is a 4chan/pol word for something awful unless you somehow want people think you’re also that thing.