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Maturity, The Fandom, and You.
14 years ago
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I just have been thinking lately, the composition of individuals here that act really you know, "young" not babyfur goo-goo ga-ga young but Middle School- Sophomore HS young. Things like severe passive aggressiveness, meangirl esque shit talking and backstabbing, dumb hierarchy. Why should I care? Well to be honest I have seen it kind to affect my inner circle, and its fucking annoying. Yes I do, do passive aggressive shit sometimes, but im trying to work on that. Yes I know I do dumb shit, but damn when it starts to affect your real life and what you accomplish for some niche group, I dunno what to even comprehend. Why cant these days people can just communicate or just go to someone PERSONALLY and tell them your problems with them, the reason I usually hear is "WELL I DONT LIKE DRAMA" well talking shit on twitter would help either.
STOP RAMBLING GODDAMMIT
STOP RAMBLING GODDAMMIT
People hate confrontation.
There are a few people that I'd love to knock around, but it got negative attention because they want conventions/furfags to be seen as cuddly fat fanbois instead of blood hungry fighters.
Whatever.
Yeah, I prefer mutual tag-team dating with my hubby, even if we have trouble finding girlfriends.
what
Isn't that just what you were talking about above?
My husband and I have been in a stable relationship for three years, we share everything and are up front and honest about all aspects of our lives. We mutually date other people as a team, respecting everyone's feelings and opinions. I gotta say, a lot less tail this way though. People are intimifated by the thought of dating a couple, people can barely ne honest with themselves, much less others, which is why most people are in shitty relationships, and why it has been so hard for us to find a serious partner who isn't batshit crazy.
We've been needing a third for awhile, but the last was in-denial crazy, and I think he's insecure from the attention I attract while he feels like he's not attractive anymore. He's getting weird with age.
most of the problem i think is is that with the internet being both public and private at the same time most people get the idea "why should i need to put up with ____ when i can just bitch about them on YIM and no one will be the wiser" which doesn't actually remedy the issue
not sayin it's right, that's just the status quo though because you don't want to offend anyone, shit you know that (eg getting suspended over the most trivial of shit because someone didn't like something you said)
most people are bitches that don't like conflict when push comes to shove, in a way FA and by extension the internet are full of Sidney Crosby's
but it's annoying as i don't know what.
:V
Stop sleeping in puke WIZ
Don't be talkin' shit when your gonna be in my city in a few weeks or you might find yourself in a bad neighborhood where they don't speak hipster.