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Jealousy.
14 years ago
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I mean what is it? What is the point of wanting something someone else go so bad that you tend to bad mouth them harder than you do anybody else that did actual wrong to you? I can understand if the person was a bitch or rude or something. But to be angry at material shit just is damn, well, shallow. What I am saying here is wow I feel like im in High School again, I dunno im rambling.
I have someone I like very much, and whenever any other girl walks up and talks to him I get upset.
I try to control it.. But I still and up very sad.
If anyone has any sort of advice to give to to try and control this crazy jealousy problem of mine, I'd love to hear it!!!
Thanks!
But beyond facetious and atrocious grammar, I don't really understand the concept too well myself. I've always been content with what I've had, or I've worked hard to get what I need/want. It's never been "oh man I wish I had that and I am going to sulk about someone else having it". Of course when I see a nice Audi or mustang drive by I take a wistful look, but it's always moreso in appreciation than "damn that should be mine! Rawrr!" So maybe that is jealousy. But I think jealousy can be in degrees too. Like some murders happen because the murderer gets so jealous that they lash out "if I can't have you no one will", "I saw how you looked at him/her!", etc. I think emotional jealousy though is a variable in self-esteem issues and a feeling of deep inadequacy. They feel that they can't just work hard and earn it, or that they don't deserve it and instead of facing their own inner issues they lash out in bitterness over what others have and they lack.