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Stuck....Hurting....Loveless....
12 years ago
Well I am quite stuck at the moment, and I am single. Which for me is kinda painful, not because I can't make it on my own and what not, but because I really really need someone to help me and keep me from going crazy. You see stupid shit worries me, I have this issue with depression and well it kinda get me really depressed but I am able to fight it off almost all day long till it gets really late then I feel like shit at night it all just piles up on me. Which is really weird, but then again whoever said I made sense.
I am been thinking of getting back with one of my ex's that i never really got to be with. But some people are starting to tell me I shouldn't because well that they believe he would just use me for my money. I don't think he would, but I don't mind spending on my partner, it is something I like to do to let them see I care about them. One of my friends told me I need to focus on me and get someone who would do the same for me, spend on me and get me things too. Not end up with someone I take care of, so maybe I shouldn't...
I am just hurtting because I am getting more and more depressed each day I am alone, and well I don't want jump into a relationship either that always ends badly. I just don't know what to do...
advice?...
I am been thinking of getting back with one of my ex's that i never really got to be with. But some people are starting to tell me I shouldn't because well that they believe he would just use me for my money. I don't think he would, but I don't mind spending on my partner, it is something I like to do to let them see I care about them. One of my friends told me I need to focus on me and get someone who would do the same for me, spend on me and get me things too. Not end up with someone I take care of, so maybe I shouldn't...
I am just hurtting because I am getting more and more depressed each day I am alone, and well I don't want jump into a relationship either that always ends badly. I just don't know what to do...
advice?...
LeonNefarious
~leonnefarious
My advice, to start, would be to first set your life in perspective. As in, don't chase after someone just to avoid being single. I've unfortunately made that mistake and it's lead to one of my worst "relationships" ever. However as for getting back with your Ex, ponder the reasons they are your Ex. Did they abuse you? Use you? Were they just not right? If it's something like this then you probably shouldn't get back together with them as none of that will have changed most likely. However if it was a superficial reason (Things like distance, lack of time, etc) then it wouldn't be bad to readdress the relationship and give it another try. I wish you all the best, really, coming from a fellow depressed person I know how hard the nights can be. Left in the dark to only ponder your thoughts they usually turn inwards and you criticize yourself, and if things in your life aren't quite right you might start to blame yourself. I know, but from what I've experienced of you thus far you are a wonderful person, and whomever ends up with you is indeed lucky to be so. Chin up old pal, you've got people rooting for you!
