Oh that is so sad. :(

Oh man. That is so sad! After all YOU'VE been through! Maybe his family blames his death on you... :(

I can felt that too about Parent blame on her for His life.. He decided to do best for her to stay life on. u.u

*hugs*

that's terrible. i know how it feels to find such a thing though. i had a friend i got along with great and we were like 2 peas in a pod and then one day i found i had been unfriended on facebook too. i hadnt been blocked persay but all attempts to resolve the issue have thus been ignored both here and on FA. to this day i have no idea why it happened. so i know how it feels to have someone do that to you. i hope you have better luck than me and get to the bottom of it and perhaps even get it changed back the way it was before.

i mean i know losing a friend isn't as bad as losing someone you love but still. i sympathize and i wish you luck in getting this matter straightened out. you deserve better than this.

What makes all this so much worse is there were friendships involved... two friendships which are now lost...
Too much has been said and done since then to consider being friends with them again. Saying my sister only cared about the dogs dying and that she never loved Hari is not something that can be taken back... Nor can they ever undo some of the other things they said and did...
...and yet my sister and I can still look back at our past relationship with them and smile because nothing can change the past we shared...
This mess has just further showed us to cherish what you have while you have it because you never know when something will change...

i know. people say a lot of things they dont really mean (well mostly anyway) in the heat of the moment. over the years i've lost friends becuase of times when things were said that can't be taken back. things that you just cant forgive.and it hurts to lose the bonds you have built with people you care about. but sometimes it can't be helped. the only thing i know to do is to just pick up what pieces you can and try to move forward.it's not easy i know but the simple truth is that even if you lose someone for whatever reason if you cared about them you will always have those precious memories to draw on to give you strength as you move forward and forge new bonds with new people and rebuild your lives.

it will take time. it always does. but i know you both will make it through this and you got my full support. if ever you need someone to talk to i'll be here. i'd like to be a friend you can count. both of you.

Whelp... Now I have been blocked from Hari's page, as has a number of our friends and family...

....that's completely unfair to you and your family. i am sorry that things have turned out this way. but i know you will always hold his memory dear to your heart and his family can never take away your memories of him. perhaps you can make a memorial of some sort to remember him by. you dont need his facebook page specifically. it's hurtful that they did that but you can honor him in your own way.

Oh no! I hope it's a misunderstanding and can be fixed promptly

It surely is no misunderstanding, and now I have been blocked from Hari's page, as has a number of our friends and family...

Yeah. I now know it wasn't after reading your sister's journal and the comments and such from the two of you. How heartless....

Oh no...I'm so very sorry. D: ;_; *hugs*

Maybe it was a mistake, you should go try talk to his parents as that is so sad after all he meant to you.

woah okay im sorry but in all honesty respect the dead. everyone deals with death differently. so shes moved on? that doesnt mean she forgot about hari at ALL. My grandfather lost his wife to a heart attack, started dating again a month later, hes going to be getting remarried in less then a year to this new lady. some of the family is upset about it because they think its too soon, but guess what? its his life, and most of them are upset because they dont think its okay because THEY THEMSELVES are not over the death. They aren't seeing how its affecting HIM at all in this whole ordeal, the same way you seem to be reacting. too SELF CENTERED? are you joking? they were BOTH injured in this tragic event. and blast us on the internet game on? W-T-F? these are peoples LIVES your are talking about! THIS ISNT A GAME and it shouldn't be made into one. I seriously think your family needs to reconsider adding her/unblocking her from the account thats TOO far, talk about disrespectful to hari. Seriously. grow up, both of you if you are both being childish about it. If anything you seem to be directing your anger of his passing's toward the wrong people.

This so much. I bit my tongue but that immature response made me sick. Have some damn respect, you obviously care not about what Hari would want and what wolf gem has gone through.

I'm sorry, but that is unacceptable. Whoever blocked you had no right; no matter what they could be thinking or blaming for you for; whoever blocked you is a selfish person that should feel sorry. I would never blocked someone from a deceased loved ones Facebook because of any 'disagreements' in the family. They had no right and I hope they realize this.

I'm so sorry, please stay strong.

Absolutely disgusting that they'd block you. So incredibly disrespectful to Elden, too. They don't know what he would what and altering the account to block the woman he saved just churns my stomach. Stay strong, we are all here to support you. Your strength has given so many hope, and I know we will all stand beside you.

Have some respect.

I might not know your brother or whats going on, but if I risked/lost my life to save the person I loved I found out that my family blocked the, from my Facebook because of some family issues or resentment; I would be very disappointed in my family. Very.

Doesn't sound like you know what your brother would want either, or you wouldn't do what your doing.

Wow, completely amazing! People shouldn't be allow to touch or change any of others stuff, It no longer makes it theirs. The sad thing is, is it is no longer his anymore, it is theirs. I'm sorry to hear how cruel people can be, but try not to be to upset because it is no longer his. They should be upset that they took his last words & postings away, you can no longer bring back those moments, thoughts or enjoyments. They have made it theirs, so it is now ruined at ever being his. Enjoy furaffinities site, that is forever his!

I tear up ever time I see something related to this. Hari is a hero for what he did, and your connection to him should stay on that page.. At least they can't screw with his FA..

*extends hugs here, too* So sorry this is happening, sweetie.

Gemily, I hope you do not let this crush you. We all know what you meant to Hari and what Hari meant to you. It is beyond sad that his family cannot realize that and would act so low as to block you. I honestly believe Hari, wherever he may be, smiles happily upon you and Nova and the happiness that you cling to.

I can only hope they take a long look at themselves and realize the harm they are not only causing you, but the harm they are causing to Hari and the memory of him. -hug- You are strong, beautiful, and loved by your family and everyone who meets you. Don't let this hurt you <3

Read both this and  beastcub journal. I'm sorry to hear about that, sometimes family can put the blame over someone who has nothing to blame for, trying to guilt trip someone over the loss. I heard that the family of  loki_blackfang did the same. But you know inside that he loves you and his opinion is the only one who should matter. With respect to you and him, I think they may be confused and still grieving, however that's not an excuse for such idiotic behavior. Don't let them bring you down, you already went thru much and proven to be strong enough to keep on going, for him and your pups.

Stay strong!

I'm sorry to hear they're doing this, especially at such a difficult time. :(
Any reasonable person would want their partner to move on with someone else, and try to be happy if they passed away. Everyone copes at a different pace and in different ways...I'd imagine that can be a hard thing to accept for the people that are left behind, still struggling with the stress and grief.

I know I'm just a random face on the internet, but you have my support. I hope they come to their senses soon. You don't deserve to deal with this crap, and from what I've read, you've had the patience of a saint through all this.

I assume they did it because you have been working to move on and got a new mate?

You have been through so much and the shock of all of those loses happening at the same time.... only to have them do that.
There is NOTHING wrong with you having a new mate and moving on, and at least YOU can always remember what he sacrificed for you because of his feelings for you, don't let his asshole family make you think any different...EVER!

Why does life have to be made of this bullshit?!

Sorry for my outburst, but I cannot tolerate people doing these things to eachother.

Even if they take his facebook away, they could never take your love or your memories for/of him away from you. Always remember what you had with Hari, and keep on moving forward. Living in the past would be almost disrespectful of his memory.

Such BS... i'm so sorry you have to deal with more bull Gemly. :(
I hope everything turns out for the better though ^^;;

Ah! Thats horrible px

This is disgusting... These people need psychological help as there is seriously something very wrong with them.

It is beyond disrespectful to start blocking people on a deceased individual's website just because of personal spite..

I am very sorry for all this unnecessary drama you are going through...

Hari's family needs to GROW THE FUCK UP.

I am now blocked as are a number of our friends and family

That is foolish...

They could learn a lesson in maturity from you and your sister...

What they are doing is nothing short of grade school level maturity.. Childish and completely immature.

As I said.. they all need to grow the fuck up..

I'm sorry such things have happened to you and your family. I hope they realize they would only be upsetting him if he were still here.

Stay strong and justice will be found. :) we are here for you!

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It must feel devastating. I hope you'll take comfort in the fact that I'm sure Hari would be disgusted with how his family is treating you.