Time heals all wounds

huggles heal all wounds, too.

That too

-huggles le gemmy and hands a cookie-
It might not mean much, but I'd do what I can to help you keep smiling Gem.

Gem, if you need to, cry, scream, yell, just do what you need to (legally that is) in order to shed your sorrow over what happened. If I was there, I would would gladly offer my shoulder for you to cry on. I do know what you are going through as I lost my partner not even 5 days after Hari passed. You go and cry yourself out and give your new pups plenty of lovin as well. They need you as much as you need them right now.

-hugs her softly and nuzzles- Keeping it in Is not good for you. If you need to cry, so not hold it in, let it out. I know it is hard, but you guys are in my prayers, and you have great family and friends, and fellow furries that are behind you to help you with what ever you need.

*offers more hugs for you* stay strong, dear one. And know we're all here for you!!

the overly warm weather of mid summer is not ever my favorite, even without the emotional weight it carries for you. and of course, what happened to you, even though i've only met you like just a couple of times, but because of the way it happened, even if i would have never met you at all, affected me more then all the comparable losses, in my own life. but for the weather, i'm glad i was able finally to get out of that valley down there. it gets hot up here in reno/sparks area, but without the humidity it isn't that kind of oppressive heat, and it doesn't stay triple digits for weeks at a time like it does down there either.

life goes on. the things that happened to my mother's jewish relatives in eastern europe 70 years ago now, the things that happened to people already living in the wastern hemisphere before this place started being called america, the things that happened to them of a span of more then a hundred years, the things that happened to the baha'is in what was then persia along about the same time.

i mention all of those things because all of their survivors, those who did, they went on, somehow, and many went on to have great things happen in their lives.

i believe people can learn not to make tragic things happen. i really believe that.
i have an idea what will happen that people will learn from.

it isn't about some kind of religion, but what will happen because of what we are doing to this earth.

i talk about things in a way that is not too personal because that is the way i am, but really, i wish for you only the best of happiness for the rest of your life.

You are a very strong & special lady. hope you can find some peace, rest & true happiness this month.

fear not for you have many friends some 2 legged and some four legged and some with both hehe :)

we are furries and we are all there for you if you need us ok?

stay strong Gem. You are a wonderful person.

I know am very late commenting on this, but wanted to say that in July I had on my mind a lot what happened to you last year. Also that while the loss of those 4 dogs is very sad, you in some ways should be happy that those 4 dogs got such great love from someone so awesome and caring, and who knows if maybe the spirit of those dogs are keeping Hari company somewhere waiting for you to someday appear there.