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Why are furs so rude?
11 years ago
I have asked for help, assistance, or other forms of help directly to furs that I respect, but the fur loses some of it's sheen when they can't be bothered to even reply with a "I'm sorry, I can't help you right now'. I mean hell, even if it's just a Thank you but no, I still reply when furs message me.
Here, I ask for help in general, and I get a couple replies at best. I am thankful for those replies, because it means someone actually took the time to read what I wrote... But thats for general stuff. When I send a note or PM or some sort of private message on here, Fetlife, Facebook, or other sites, and I wait a few days to get no response, but I see they are still posting new stuff...... it kinda irritates me, and makes me feel like They think I am beneath them.
Am I the only one who feels this way?
Here, I ask for help in general, and I get a couple replies at best. I am thankful for those replies, because it means someone actually took the time to read what I wrote... But thats for general stuff. When I send a note or PM or some sort of private message on here, Fetlife, Facebook, or other sites, and I wait a few days to get no response, but I see they are still posting new stuff...... it kinda irritates me, and makes me feel like They think I am beneath them.
Am I the only one who feels this way?
junkshop_coyote
∞junkshopcoyote
Because their humans spare the newspaper.
Darkie
~darkie
OP
Hmmm.... and my subscription ran out.... wait.... I have a Clue-by-Four I use on the kids...... Think that will work?
junkshop_coyote
∞junkshopcoyote
Couldn't hurt.... Well, you know what I mean....
Siyahamba
~siyahamba
I think a lot just don't consider that there's a living being with real emotions on the other side of their screen.
Darkie
~darkie
OP
Maybe so... I don't know... I just try to follow the mottow about treating others like I would want treated.
toroko
~toroko
It all depends on who you meet really.
Darkie
~darkie
OP
Well, for instance, following someone and responding to them, liking their stuff, then getting nothing in return when you ask them a question. That sort of thing.
ElkiUnico
~elkiunico
When i read others calling out for help I don't normally reply as no one wants to read "Sorry I can't help" even if it is a very close friend I am the same way, it doesn't seem like a good idea to post if you can't help them and just a good idea to post if I can help them. Maybe others feel the same way or possibly you are right and others are just being rude, I have no way to prove one way or the other on that. :(
