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what is going on for me the passed few months.
10 years ago
hey everyone i guess i should finally give everyone an update on how i been. if you have known me long enough you would see that there is something deeply troubling me. though i never try to bring it out in chat i figured now is as good time as any to finally just tell everyone what is really going on. this will be in parts and i don't expect this to be short either. i will try to make this work though.
1. roughly about 2 mouths ago i got into a little fender bender. nothing major and everyone was ok. more or less just broke part of my lens on my taillight nothing more. the driver in the other vehicle was find. turns out he didn't speak English at all. but he was fine and i was fine. asked him many times if he was good and he seem to nod so i just drove off. the next day right before the biggest concert of my life two officers showed up at my door asking for me. saying i did a "hit and run" and i would need to go to the station to clear it up right away. i was freaking out because i though it was all good. but turns out i was wrong. i when down there and got it cleared up. only got in trouble for no insurance on the car and that i was getting a ticket in the mail. well a few days ago i got a notice saying my licences was going to suspended for not paying the ticket. i was mad and upset because i didn't know what to do. so i call up the ticket client and figured out how much it was going to be to fix it. so what i am looking at is roughly 30$-122$ to pay it. ether way i have to do so within the week. i should be about to take care of it tomorrow.
2. so one Saturday i when in to my advance auto parts. i got there and saw two tickets and saw i was written up for them already. without even hear my side of the story. they already decided it was my fault. after a long boring talk about how it was me and how my bossed said he "tried" to do everything he could about talking to be big bosses and said i had to pay them. each ticket was 158 a piece. this of course was shortly after getting into that fender bender about a week before. was it only seem ot make things worst for me. i was so mad and yet sadden too that i decide to do something about it. the next day i put my 2 weeks notice in and decide then and there i was done with them and would be leaving on the 5 of July. there were a few remarks about him saying this was a mistake and how i would be working harder somewhere else and how it would be just as stressful there. but i didn't listen as the tickets were the last straw for me. i was already thinking of leaving as is. but this just sealed it for me. so on July 5 i leaved them and never going back. though i still have the two tickets to deal with.
3. as you know i still have the two tickets do deal with. each 158 for stop like violations for a total of 316. now this being said i talked to the ticket client and they cant do anything yet to them until they the date of due has passed. (which is 8/4/15) i could either pay the full price now and not have anything on my license at all or i can wait and pay 75$ per to the ticket client for a total of 150$ to have them dismissed out of court. that being said it would still show up on my license as two tickets but show up as dismissed. the question is. do i pay for the full price and have them never show up again on my driver licence or do i pay 150$ to have them dismissed from court but still be on my driver license as ticket that were dismissed.
4. since i leaved my other job i was suppose to get an auto parts job working on cars but i haven't gone a call yet nor have them seem interested in hiring me. i been with one for about 2 weeks now and i been really stressing over it. i am also going to try and talk to them again to see what going on and what is the hold on on hiring me. that being said i am should have pushed it more when i was out of a job instead of siting on my ass most of the time.
5. i have one last thing i like to say before wrapping this up. i am leaving for a vacation to see
elementalwolf (aka my mate) on the 26th of July. wont be back until the 2nd of august. with how stressed out as i been and with my money being short i am not sure what will happen or anything. if you feel like you could help in anyway please let me know. though i don't ever expect it nor do i care if anyone does. just stating how things are for me before i leave. when i get back i will be needing to pay rent and paying the ticket client. (total being 495$ you can do the math on how much my rent is by looking at number 4 again) this is why i would ask for anything anyone is willing to give me. again you don't have to just a putting myself out there.
ok well here we have it. this is what been bothering me lately. other then being a little pressured by my roomates to go and push myself into looking for a job or pushing for the other job i should be getting away. i been really emotion to pretty much everyone and i am sorry if been really rude and bitching and been really causing a lot of drama. but a good friend of mine (aka
Kirisha ) she told me it would be a good idea to write down all my issue. so here they are. i do kinda feel just a little bit better after this but still there a lot i need to think about and a lot i need to fix. this is why i wrote it down. to help me focus my mind onto them and work on fixing them. i know this is long and i hope this will help you understand me better and why i been how i am the last few months. thank you all.
1. roughly about 2 mouths ago i got into a little fender bender. nothing major and everyone was ok. more or less just broke part of my lens on my taillight nothing more. the driver in the other vehicle was find. turns out he didn't speak English at all. but he was fine and i was fine. asked him many times if he was good and he seem to nod so i just drove off. the next day right before the biggest concert of my life two officers showed up at my door asking for me. saying i did a "hit and run" and i would need to go to the station to clear it up right away. i was freaking out because i though it was all good. but turns out i was wrong. i when down there and got it cleared up. only got in trouble for no insurance on the car and that i was getting a ticket in the mail. well a few days ago i got a notice saying my licences was going to suspended for not paying the ticket. i was mad and upset because i didn't know what to do. so i call up the ticket client and figured out how much it was going to be to fix it. so what i am looking at is roughly 30$-122$ to pay it. ether way i have to do so within the week. i should be about to take care of it tomorrow.
2. so one Saturday i when in to my advance auto parts. i got there and saw two tickets and saw i was written up for them already. without even hear my side of the story. they already decided it was my fault. after a long boring talk about how it was me and how my bossed said he "tried" to do everything he could about talking to be big bosses and said i had to pay them. each ticket was 158 a piece. this of course was shortly after getting into that fender bender about a week before. was it only seem ot make things worst for me. i was so mad and yet sadden too that i decide to do something about it. the next day i put my 2 weeks notice in and decide then and there i was done with them and would be leaving on the 5 of July. there were a few remarks about him saying this was a mistake and how i would be working harder somewhere else and how it would be just as stressful there. but i didn't listen as the tickets were the last straw for me. i was already thinking of leaving as is. but this just sealed it for me. so on July 5 i leaved them and never going back. though i still have the two tickets to deal with.
3. as you know i still have the two tickets do deal with. each 158 for stop like violations for a total of 316. now this being said i talked to the ticket client and they cant do anything yet to them until they the date of due has passed. (which is 8/4/15) i could either pay the full price now and not have anything on my license at all or i can wait and pay 75$ per to the ticket client for a total of 150$ to have them dismissed out of court. that being said it would still show up on my license as two tickets but show up as dismissed. the question is. do i pay for the full price and have them never show up again on my driver licence or do i pay 150$ to have them dismissed from court but still be on my driver license as ticket that were dismissed.
4. since i leaved my other job i was suppose to get an auto parts job working on cars but i haven't gone a call yet nor have them seem interested in hiring me. i been with one for about 2 weeks now and i been really stressing over it. i am also going to try and talk to them again to see what going on and what is the hold on on hiring me. that being said i am should have pushed it more when i was out of a job instead of siting on my ass most of the time.
5. i have one last thing i like to say before wrapping this up. i am leaving for a vacation to see
elementalwolf (aka my mate) on the 26th of July. wont be back until the 2nd of august. with how stressed out as i been and with my money being short i am not sure what will happen or anything. if you feel like you could help in anyway please let me know. though i don't ever expect it nor do i care if anyone does. just stating how things are for me before i leave. when i get back i will be needing to pay rent and paying the ticket client. (total being 495$ you can do the math on how much my rent is by looking at number 4 again) this is why i would ask for anything anyone is willing to give me. again you don't have to just a putting myself out there.ok well here we have it. this is what been bothering me lately. other then being a little pressured by my roomates to go and push myself into looking for a job or pushing for the other job i should be getting away. i been really emotion to pretty much everyone and i am sorry if been really rude and bitching and been really causing a lot of drama. but a good friend of mine (aka
Kirisha ) she told me it would be a good idea to write down all my issue. so here they are. i do kinda feel just a little bit better after this but still there a lot i need to think about and a lot i need to fix. this is why i wrote it down. to help me focus my mind onto them and work on fixing them. i know this is long and i hope this will help you understand me better and why i been how i am the last few months. thank you all.
I noticed the mistake made while upset, but considering all the events leading up to it, and the ones unknown beforehand, no one could actually blame you. I'm glad you have roommates to help shoulder the rent burden for a little bit while you stand up again.
Though I'm even more glad you have a vacation with your mate coming up soon. To be able to relax a bit before having to fully deal with all of this.
And honestly, I have lent out money to friends before for their situations, but I am currently behind a fair bit personally, so am sad to say I couldn't assist financially. ...though every single word you say, I'll always listen to, even if I'm often zoned out in chat, when it's directed to me, or something big happens, ah'll always be listening to the vent and trying to assist in whatever little way possible.
In the same chatroom, and I spoke with the same opening sentance there too~ "Ah have read every single word." *snrk*
Closer than yah may have thought!
...am also usually slow to start conversations but always end up responding`
Sincerely,
Valyon
(A.K.A. RainbowMaker_Val/Hyennec)