I'm a bit torn on what to do...
9 years ago
I don't really write out my thoughts often and when I do, it usually is something that is pretty impacting for my life, in short, I'm at one of those times again and would like advice. I have been working pretty steadily since November of 2015 at a job that I enjoy, that's not the issue, what is really weighing heavily is that I have the opportunity of leaving the parent's house, getting out from under their thumb. Things at the parents house have been steadily declining, the marriage between the parents is a farce. The mother has been treating the father like garbage for the past... 30-ish years of their marriage and the father has finally started putting his foot down, which the mother doesn't like. The mother treats everyone in the family like garbage and throws childish fits when she doesn't get her way, also, if you're not doing something that she told you to do or "asked" you to do, you're wasting time. Sorry for the mini-rant, back on topic; I have a job here that I really do enjoy, though the home life is getting steadily worse, Where I would be moving to would be an hours drive away, the one that I'm moving in with said that they would assist in securing a job and that there are jobs available to be had quickly. I still care for several members of the family and I don't wish to possibly hurt them by moving, again, but... I don't know how much longer I can stay at the parents house... I would be moving somewhere that accepts and embraces who I am and is definitely a more positive environment, though... I still worry that I will be somehow negatively effected, I know, after all that I've said about how bad things are here, I still care about the family... I'm torn and really would like some sort of advice on what to do... If more information is wanted, please note me...
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