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Journal for FA Lend-A-Hand About My Situation(compiled info)
7 years ago
Hey there everyone.
As you may or may not know, I have been going through quite a difficult time at the start of this year, probably the hardest that I think I would have ever had to face in my entire life. I got arrested on March 3rd, 2018 over a physical argument with my father (might I add, that he initiated) and I was simply trying to defend myself and the well-being of my dogs. My friend was kind enough to contact the police for me since I didn't have any way of doing it myself (my mentally unstable father ripped the phone out of my hands and all I could do was contact my friend on an instant messenger to explain what happened in the house). I later on lived with friends for a few months, had to deal with constant visits to court that almost always just ended up as an unnecessary and aggravating extension of my trial (despite the fact that I have a right to a speedy trial), and eventually getting a job at a puppy store in my area after my position at a psychologist's office was terminated because technology is replacing a lot of us human beings. I worked there from April 12, 2018 until I was fired on August 12, 2018 (the time frame, as I look at it now, was no mere coincidence) and to make matters worse, the people working for the company were outright refusing to pay me my last paycheck for hours that I had already worked as well as my last pending commissions for the month of August. Thanks to FA-Lend-A-Hand's advice, I was able to make them give me my well deserved paycheck and commission that was well overdue. Unfortunately ever since then, I haven't been able to get a job as I have been faced with numerous and constant [nearly instant] rejections from places that I've been applying to. Since I don't have a car, let alone a driver's license (I have a learner's permit and that's about it), it's been making it even more difficult for me to get a job in Kendall.
Not only that, ever since I lost my job, I was unable to continue helping to pay for rent. Fortunately, yet unfortunately considering my situation, on September 13th, 2018 I was granted a modification on my Stay-Away Order. It was changed to a Non-Violent Contact Order, meaning that I can live in my house again legally under the condition that cannot cause any sort of physical fight in the house involving my father or else I end up getting locked up (which again, the State of Florida is still under the impression that my father was the victim in the situation and not the other way around). I know I shouldn't be looking at a gift horse in the mouth considering I have a home to stay in again, but this place is the same place I've been wanting to escape for years now. Regardless, I had no other choice but to move back in with my dysfunctional family because I didn't want to become a burden to my friends. My family is just constantly arguing, even more than what I had experienced before I had gotten arrested. My brother is also suffering from my parents' nuclear arguments. When he was taken to the doctor, we were informed that he is malnourished and 20 pounds underweight. So because of my parents constantly fighting, he's been stressed out to the point of starvation. I am overwhelmed to no end because of all that is going on in this house.
This entire year has been a complete and utter emotional roller coaster for me, to the point where I've been depressed nearly every day. My mental and physical health has been steadily declining because of the amount stress that this entire mess has put on me.
I was originally supposed to do PTI for my court case because at that point I just wanted to get over with my court case, I just wanted to be able to go to school and hopefully get a job again in the future because I didn't want to deal with that anymore. But because I had lost my job during the course of me accepting the terms of PTI, I had to withdraw and my parents got me an attorney. Or rather I should say they found me an attorney and I was told to pay for it because it is "my fault" that I got arrested so "I should pay for my mess." So I have a now nearly maxed out credit card because I paid for an attorney that cost me $5,000 simply because my parents think I'm to blame for going to jail. I thankfully had some money set aside to pay for some of the minimum payments that I had to do, but lately that just isn't the case anymore.
I don't wish to be a burden but I would really appreciate getting all the help that I can get; be it through donations, commissions, or even a signal boost. I have all the paperwork/documents to prove that I am not making any of this stuff up. I have them all on imgur web files as shown below:
As you may or may not know, I have been going through quite a difficult time at the start of this year, probably the hardest that I think I would have ever had to face in my entire life. I got arrested on March 3rd, 2018 over a physical argument with my father (might I add, that he initiated) and I was simply trying to defend myself and the well-being of my dogs. My friend was kind enough to contact the police for me since I didn't have any way of doing it myself (my mentally unstable father ripped the phone out of my hands and all I could do was contact my friend on an instant messenger to explain what happened in the house). I later on lived with friends for a few months, had to deal with constant visits to court that almost always just ended up as an unnecessary and aggravating extension of my trial (despite the fact that I have a right to a speedy trial), and eventually getting a job at a puppy store in my area after my position at a psychologist's office was terminated because technology is replacing a lot of us human beings. I worked there from April 12, 2018 until I was fired on August 12, 2018 (the time frame, as I look at it now, was no mere coincidence) and to make matters worse, the people working for the company were outright refusing to pay me my last paycheck for hours that I had already worked as well as my last pending commissions for the month of August. Thanks to FA-Lend-A-Hand's advice, I was able to make them give me my well deserved paycheck and commission that was well overdue. Unfortunately ever since then, I haven't been able to get a job as I have been faced with numerous and constant [nearly instant] rejections from places that I've been applying to. Since I don't have a car, let alone a driver's license (I have a learner's permit and that's about it), it's been making it even more difficult for me to get a job in Kendall.
Not only that, ever since I lost my job, I was unable to continue helping to pay for rent. Fortunately, yet unfortunately considering my situation, on September 13th, 2018 I was granted a modification on my Stay-Away Order. It was changed to a Non-Violent Contact Order, meaning that I can live in my house again legally under the condition that cannot cause any sort of physical fight in the house involving my father or else I end up getting locked up (which again, the State of Florida is still under the impression that my father was the victim in the situation and not the other way around). I know I shouldn't be looking at a gift horse in the mouth considering I have a home to stay in again, but this place is the same place I've been wanting to escape for years now. Regardless, I had no other choice but to move back in with my dysfunctional family because I didn't want to become a burden to my friends. My family is just constantly arguing, even more than what I had experienced before I had gotten arrested. My brother is also suffering from my parents' nuclear arguments. When he was taken to the doctor, we were informed that he is malnourished and 20 pounds underweight. So because of my parents constantly fighting, he's been stressed out to the point of starvation. I am overwhelmed to no end because of all that is going on in this house.
This entire year has been a complete and utter emotional roller coaster for me, to the point where I've been depressed nearly every day. My mental and physical health has been steadily declining because of the amount stress that this entire mess has put on me.
I was originally supposed to do PTI for my court case because at that point I just wanted to get over with my court case, I just wanted to be able to go to school and hopefully get a job again in the future because I didn't want to deal with that anymore. But because I had lost my job during the course of me accepting the terms of PTI, I had to withdraw and my parents got me an attorney. Or rather I should say they found me an attorney and I was told to pay for it because it is "my fault" that I got arrested so "I should pay for my mess." So I have a now nearly maxed out credit card because I paid for an attorney that cost me $5,000 simply because my parents think I'm to blame for going to jail. I thankfully had some money set aside to pay for some of the minimum payments that I had to do, but lately that just isn't the case anymore.
I don't wish to be a burden but I would really appreciate getting all the help that I can get; be it through donations, commissions, or even a signal boost. I have all the paperwork/documents to prove that I am not making any of this stuff up. I have them all on imgur web files as shown below:
Final Paycheck and work commission: https://imgur.com/a/smlYUds
Proof that I got fired: https://imgur.com/a/tfeCGRI
My Arrest Documents: https://imgur.com/a/UZ4sKcO
Non-Violent Contact Order document: https://imgur.com/a/R8c7R3g
Receipt when I paid for my attorney: https://imgur.com/a/Rpzf0Lp
Current credit card debt: https://imgur.com/a/mQ6WdvnMy links to receive money for this cause are provided below:
PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/ladynightosphere
Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ladynightosphere
If anyone wishes to contact me via notes, my notes are open. If they wish to contact me via e-mail, my business address is as follows: ladynightosphere[at]gmail.com
Thank you so much for hearing me out and I am hoping for the best.