This is opening a can of worms but....
6 years ago
What is with this new idea that "trap" is a slur against gender fluid or trans people? I mean as far as I know a straight, gay, bi, trans, cis, genderfluid, etc can be a trap because trapping is just dressing in clothes in the opposite sex specifically to trick the same gender for a sexual thrill. It's a fetish and unlike cuck it's not even one that has been used like an insult. I dunno about anyone else but I've never heard someone get called a trap in a negative light, let alone in rl conversation so i really am confused as to the how and why of this becoming a slur to the point it's ending friendships because it really seems like a hypersensitive internet culture thing just trying to cultivate outrage just to cause problems.
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So yeah, like others have said, just ignore it. I mean, "fag" is a pretty harsh insult (depends though) and I love being called that (context is key).
I mean seriously as someone who has half a family of middleclass rednecks I've never hear "trap" used I've heard "Tranny" used but I've heard it used both in anger and amusement. so, again, context is the jkey factor it seems also it's kinda funny that Majalis who made Tales of Androgyny originally called it Trap RPG but then later took out all mentions of traps or trapping when referring to the main character because "offensive".
Also something of note, the weirder someones kinks are the HARDER they'll virtue signal the "trap is a slur" thing.