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6 years ago
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At some point in the past year I talked about how my sister contacted me over facebook. I never knew my biological Father, and never really cared to know him, but I knew I had some siblings and my mom had said his parents were very nice to her, plus my Dad I have now met my mom when I was about 2 and officially adopted me when I was 4 and they have my little brother whom I grew up with and I really love my adoptive Dad, my parents are honestly the best.
Anyways, so this sister got in contact with me and we spoke a little bit on facebook and I've got her, 4 other sisters and a brother, I'm the oldest, haven't talk to any of them, they are all from like 3 different ladies (yeah, this guy got around-hence why my mom wanted nothing to do with him after I was born). But then he sent me a friend request on FB, which I accidentally accepted (scrolling and accepted it without realizing) but then I was like mmm ok well it is what it is
Fast forward and he's talked to me a little bit here and there, seems nice, and supportive, but I keep my distance.
Then a few days ago I get a fb message from what would be my grandpa saying he loved me very much and held me as a baby and would love for me to come visit all of them this summer and he'd pay for the place ticket.
This is all moving WAY too fast. Old people have NO CHILL. I haven't responded back. I don't know what to say. I talked to my adoptive Dad about all this over the last few months and he's super supportive and just wants to make sure I don't get hurt or taken advantage of- but even this last one threw him for a loop. I can't talk to my mom about it which is crazy cuz I tell her everything, she knows I'm in contact with my biological father, but doesn't trust him as far as she could throw him and doesn't want to talk about it.
I don't know what to do
Anyways, so this sister got in contact with me and we spoke a little bit on facebook and I've got her, 4 other sisters and a brother, I'm the oldest, haven't talk to any of them, they are all from like 3 different ladies (yeah, this guy got around-hence why my mom wanted nothing to do with him after I was born). But then he sent me a friend request on FB, which I accidentally accepted (scrolling and accepted it without realizing) but then I was like mmm ok well it is what it is
Fast forward and he's talked to me a little bit here and there, seems nice, and supportive, but I keep my distance.
Then a few days ago I get a fb message from what would be my grandpa saying he loved me very much and held me as a baby and would love for me to come visit all of them this summer and he'd pay for the place ticket.
This is all moving WAY too fast. Old people have NO CHILL. I haven't responded back. I don't know what to say. I talked to my adoptive Dad about all this over the last few months and he's super supportive and just wants to make sure I don't get hurt or taken advantage of- but even this last one threw him for a loop. I can't talk to my mom about it which is crazy cuz I tell her everything, she knows I'm in contact with my biological father, but doesn't trust him as far as she could throw him and doesn't want to talk about it.
I don't know what to do
