I'm so mad right now.... I'm gonna die
6 years ago
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The guy who is dicking my SO over for 40K + penalties and interest on a decade old lien against the house she inherited from her deceased father and who is also purposely trying to slow the process down literally just to spite her because he didn't like her father....
Has a networth.
OF 80 MILLION DOLLARS.
Let me rephrase that for anyone who didn't quite grok the situation: A colossal bully, who's own lawyers hate him, and who's net worth is approaching 100 MILLION DOLLARS, is dicking my girlfriend over for 40K+ over a decade-long grudge against her deceased father.
Said millionaire was made aware of our circumstances whereupon he doubled down, called Jordan a bitch even though he doesn't know her, and purposely stalled her closing just to be a dick.
Fucking shoot me.
Has a networth.
OF 80 MILLION DOLLARS.
Let me rephrase that for anyone who didn't quite grok the situation: A colossal bully, who's own lawyers hate him, and who's net worth is approaching 100 MILLION DOLLARS, is dicking my girlfriend over for 40K+ over a decade-long grudge against her deceased father.
Said millionaire was made aware of our circumstances whereupon he doubled down, called Jordan a bitch even though he doesn't know her, and purposely stalled her closing just to be a dick.
Fucking shoot me.
FA+

If this isn't the Scroogiest fucker I've ever seen.....
I'm flat broke. Otherwise, I'd hire you a lawyer to do to him what he's doing... and let him waste all his money.
But yes. The problem with <insert topic here> is that people are involved.
There may be exceptions but this guy makes his money explicitly by loaning desperate people money then yanking the rug out from under them so he's definitely not an exception.
Anyway, brb, going to get the guillotine.
In any case this guy is truly an asshole, and what's going on is very, very wrong.
ok boomer
PS
Have a shiny, and a nice day.
Every little tiny bit helps!
Selah
I guess you have now discovered the definition of “fuck you money” from the other end. XD
For him, that is.
I also know of one person who lost their house because of them. Even with lawyers and a lawsuit against the company, they still lost the home.
not you ever.
maybe the dark web shall provide you a remedy, bobbie.
Also, eat the rich.
We've already been apart two years and it has sucked royally. We were hoping to build our lives together with the money from the sale of that house. Mind you, he was made aware of all this and stated flat out that he doesn't care. Even called her a "little bitch" for absolutely no reason. He's never met her and knows next to nothing about her.
How much does it cost to hire a reasonably competent hitman over there? Just curious, no reason...
Do a fundraiser. Patreon and Ko-Fi are nice for long term support but when you need a larger amount right now to get you out of deep shit a fundraiser works much better. AFAIK people mostly use gofundme.com for personal fundraisers like this.
Then start building that Patreon, because with your art it is reasonable to use Patreon as one of your main income sources but it takes time to get there and takes lot of work, so it is not something to solve your current issues on the short term.
# That guy, let's just say if a piano fell on him I would only feel sorry for the piano.
HAH! ;p Good one.
If things get bad enough, I'll do that. I'm still trying to get over the hangup of asking people for money at all. It just feels so wrong- maybe because I'm chronically broke and don't part with my money easily or happily. I hate feeling like I'm putting people through that. But I forget that not everyone is in my circumstance. It's something I'm working on.
Thanks.
You first got screwed over by homophobic bastards, and now this guy... I think nobody would judge you if you turned to fundraising to get out of this situation.
The best you can do is flee at the first opportunity and mentally remove him from existence as soon as possible. Being mad about him is like being mad at a piece of rock-it's not worth the energy, and in fact allows him some level of control over you-with a personality like that, that is what he wants. Don't let him win and you can start by not dying.
Speaking of Trump, I read that polls are showing he would beat every democratic contender. :\ I hope that's not true. If they get another for years, I feel like we're done. Maybe I'm catastrophizing but...
or better yet, hire someone who will tie him down and stuff him with money bills until he suffocates.
with Monopoly money.
and deny him the ketchup.
Though more usually, it is a great many crimes, with an endless trail of victims. It doesn't matter to people like that whether it's one dollar or a million. It's all about "winning."
On a more serious note, last I heard, debts die with the debt holder. I'm have no clue whether liens work the same way, though. Good luck dealing with this monster, and keep in mind at all times that you're up against a predator who wants to consume you not only for sustenance, but for pleasure. Any sign of kindness or surrender from him will most likely be a feint. I have my fingers crossed for you.
Fuk dat guy~!
Putting a lein on the house is a crime, in that case.
Now, she could have another year, she could have another ten years. We don't know. But every day she isn't up here with me makes things worse in many ways. We've already been apart for two years and we were expecting to build our lives together with the money we got from the sale of her house.
Ensure it doesn't survive.
Not advocating anything, there.
What I hope might brighten your evening, is this:
His money can't love him back and it's doubtful any of the people in his life are picking up that slack.
I won't try to placate you by saying he's just jealous. We both know he's not, he sees you as a lesser animal. That's how people like that can justify the things they do.
But knowing that he will, in all probability, go to his grave miserable, unfulfilled and probably alone, should give you a nice little smirk to wear.
You two will make it.
SO sorry this guy is such an a-hole to you. Makes me so mad