If you’re afraid of it maybe that’s a sign not to do it

I'd honestly LOVE to have that as well, however, I don't think medical science is anywhere near ready for that just yet. I'll wait until it's refined and perfected and safe, because even simpler surgeries that are available now often turn out disastrous or at least troublesome and need constant aftercare to even stay comfortable on any level.. it's just not worth the trouble and expense for a band-aid fix.

You have to remember that with these sorts of surgeries, you're essentially wounding your body and then taking medications and such for the rest of your life to force the body to stop trying to heal it back. It will never feel or function like the real thing, and I've heard it gets extra nasty in other ways too :(

I know one person who actually lied to psychologists and tricked them into approving her for the trans-surgery to switch genders from male to female. She and I used to be friends for a while, till she said she wanted millions of people to die because it'd be entertaining. However during that time she mentioned all the work she has to do to keep maintaining her vagina and all the chemicals she has to take and she even bought meds illegally because her doctor wouldn't give her the exact ones she wanted, being too mentally fucked up to actually let the doctors do their job so she assumed she was right and no one else was. (Don't take this wrong, I'm just talking about this one individual being very fucked up, not a whole group or anything)

But yea, she was freaking out because Corona blocked the supplies she was getting for a while and she said she only had a month or two to live if she couldn't get more of that very specific drug she was buying illegally. Some hormone that she needed. I can't imagine having to live like that. Taking meds for the rest of your life because you wanted to modify your body, and not because something in your body broke.

And.... Now, we have this special surgery to give people more gender choices? I can only see this getting worse. Do they even do psychological testing anymore or do you just walk in and say "I want a penginaisvager" and they say "Ok, explain what that is and we'll make it happen"? People need to be screened, psychologically to be sure they are ready for such a transition for one. Could you imagine someone getting it, then hating themselves because they didn't really want it? They'd probably end up hating themself and most likely committing suicide, and then the world would claim its because everyone hated them and treated them badly and we need to protect them harder.

I dunno how I feel about this "nonbinary" surgery system. I mean, if they do it right, fine. But if they just let you walk right in and ask for a vagina penis. No.

Suicide actually isn't terribly uncommon among trans folks, being depressed from chemical imbalances and hormones and otherwise, as well as just realizing this isn't actually what they wanted in the end.. I fear that a lot of folks want/do it for fetish reasons, too, which is a horrible idea. Some of my closest friends have been transitioning for almost a decade, and they tell me "don't fucking do it, it will ruin your life in the long run and you'll hate yourself even more than you do now". I think people romanticize the whole "fixing your gender" idea, where in reality it's just not like the fantasy at all. As much as I wish I was really a herm in body, as that's what truly feels correct to me even after 15 years of introspection, I'll wait until it's safer and easier and science has really understood and perfected it all.

It may not be doable within our life times with how very complex it is in the end.

It is your body, but you have to remember: Medical Science and Technology has only advanced so far.

Yes, you may want something specific for your body. A specific look, a specific feel, but sometimes, that's impossible with where technology and medical science has advanced.

Looking at this especially, I don't feel its even worth it, given as Ryken has said as well. Instead, look at it a different way and ask yourself this important question: How can I make myself truly comfortable in my own body without permanently altering my body?

That's actually a good thought to start with. Because, remember, if you ever do something like this. It is irreversible and you will have to deal with the undesired consequences of your choice for the rest of your life.

And this is why there is or at least used to be extensive psychological testing prior to approving someone for the surgery to transition from one to the other. I don't know if its gotten easier or if they even bother to test people anymore.

Considering how the world treats mental health...it's not likely things have gotten better. It's why I take a more interesting perspective with transgender/nonbinary ideas. Unless they are really, really, and I mean, REALLY uncomfortable and REALLY hate their bodies. They should be careful in any transition and instead, look to find some alternate means first, before surgeries and medical procedures, to make themselves comfortable in their bodies.

Then, if that one fails, look to a gradual escalation until they find a point where they are comfortable.

Exactly like Ryken and Aduro said-
At the very least, I’d strongly recommend waiting and doing more research, especially if the immediately post-surgery results were as... unpleasant as you said-

Wither it’s with experimental surgery or trying out a new vehicle, the costs and risks of being an early adopter are frequently high-I strongly recommend being cautious about something with this much potential for failure/complications, especially if it’s a poorly known technique/procedure to start with...