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My mother has passed away
a month ago
Around 7pm yesterday she passed away. We were able to make it in time to see her. She was so thin and weak, she was unresponsive... She could hear and react a little bit when I talked to her... She was very restless, but looked unconscious, it was difficult to understand.
her heart gave out at the end.
I am now trying to come to terms with the reality I have lost my father, my sister and my mother all in these last 4 years.
her heart gave out at the end.
I am now trying to come to terms with the reality I have lost my father, my sister and my mother all in these last 4 years.
Please take good care of yourself
I'm wishing you and your loved ones the best during this time. And I hope you'll take the time you need to go through and process your grief
I lost my mother in 2013 and it still hurts me.
Feels like losing a part of you that you cant comprehend is gone and i'm sorry its worse for losing your father and sister in such a short time.
All I can say is stay strong.
My sympathies go out to you and your family. Hold her in your heart.
It felt like something important in the world was stripped away, leaving a void. Making the colors and everything seem so muted.
I won't sugar coat it, it's going to be rough. At least for a couple years. Your mind will find its way to them, even if you're not normally thinking about them.
An it could be the dumbest thing that triggers the memory, a sound, a smell, certain words, they'll just remind you.
Condolences feel hollow, so I offer my support, and any counsel I can provide, with how I've learned to cope.
If you feel comfortable asking advice from a stranger. Ask, I'll do my best to help
Nobody will fault you for needing time & most of all what matters right now is letting yourself have a moment to process these feelings, they're natural, and so important to let yourself feel. Please take care of yourself.
Take some time off if you need it.