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Being a friend
15 years ago
.....The question still arises sometimes for me. What is a friend to you?
I mean all these years of being a kind gentle sweet tiger to those I truely care about, should I ever expect anything in return. Sometimes no, sometimes yes, but a friend to me is about as much as my homies are there for me cause my friends and homies are my family.
A great ninja and fellow furfriend once texted me a phrase on my cell.
"A friend is there to catch the first tear, wipe away the second tear, and bitch slap the motherfucker who causes the third."
That friend is my pal Renamon who is a male renamon juggalo who lives out in PA. He's been my friend almost ever since I joined the fandom 5 years ago. He's a naughty little bastard but he knows I care bout him as he does for me.
Although his confusious talkings are good there is something I live by and I mentioned this at bowling last night.
"Treat others the way you wanna be treated." and also "To get respect you have to give respect." I mean wouldn't a friend understand part of this? I've tried but I guess I haven't been trying hard enough.
A few days ago I guess I did something I shouldn't of and I thought more about what would be better for all of us and was not trying to be "responsible" I had gotten my unemployment money and wanted to put it to better use than paying for video games or buying equipment like most other people do. I went and got more food for us to last more than just a week on the way back home. Yet I'm told I am irresponsible.
At dinner I treated my mate to getting food and then at bowling I paid for me frost and kenova to bowl while in suit. I wanted to do something nice for once. And to top it off I don't know if any of you heard but a fellow friend at bowling had money stolen from his wallet and we don't know who could of done it. $150 was taken from his wallet cause he accidentally left it out on the table in the changing room.
To think a fur would stoop so low as to something like that. Who ever you are that did that, you are a heartless asshole and should be ashamed of yerself. Hope yo uenjoy the money cause the security camera caught you doing it and once the cops review the tape, yer ass is busted.
But you know what I did? I did something that wasn't irresponsible or bad or even fucked up.
I pulled out my OWN wallet and gave my friend 200 bucks from my unemployment money, to help cover the money that was stolen. WHY you may ask?
Cause I'm a friend and I wouldn't expect ever anything in return. Its what friends do. I'm not a terrible person. Some like to make me look like one but it doesn't work nor does it phase me. I don't think with my dick when I have friends over. I don't play with emotions. I don't hide behind a false face of trust or love and later reveal myself to be nothing but a player.
All I'm saying is if you think of me as a bad person, think I'm evil or just irresponsible and you take a side before listening to both sides, then one day your gonna mess up that friendship you once had and not just hurt those you kicked to the curb, but later on you'll realize that you lost something truely special in your life when you learned the actual truth.
Here's a last bit of wisdom from this tiger.
"Blood in your body runs to 2 heads, try using the one that will make things better in life."
I mean all these years of being a kind gentle sweet tiger to those I truely care about, should I ever expect anything in return. Sometimes no, sometimes yes, but a friend to me is about as much as my homies are there for me cause my friends and homies are my family.
A great ninja and fellow furfriend once texted me a phrase on my cell.
"A friend is there to catch the first tear, wipe away the second tear, and bitch slap the motherfucker who causes the third."
That friend is my pal Renamon who is a male renamon juggalo who lives out in PA. He's been my friend almost ever since I joined the fandom 5 years ago. He's a naughty little bastard but he knows I care bout him as he does for me.
Although his confusious talkings are good there is something I live by and I mentioned this at bowling last night.
"Treat others the way you wanna be treated." and also "To get respect you have to give respect." I mean wouldn't a friend understand part of this? I've tried but I guess I haven't been trying hard enough.
A few days ago I guess I did something I shouldn't of and I thought more about what would be better for all of us and was not trying to be "responsible" I had gotten my unemployment money and wanted to put it to better use than paying for video games or buying equipment like most other people do. I went and got more food for us to last more than just a week on the way back home. Yet I'm told I am irresponsible.
At dinner I treated my mate to getting food and then at bowling I paid for me frost and kenova to bowl while in suit. I wanted to do something nice for once. And to top it off I don't know if any of you heard but a fellow friend at bowling had money stolen from his wallet and we don't know who could of done it. $150 was taken from his wallet cause he accidentally left it out on the table in the changing room.
To think a fur would stoop so low as to something like that. Who ever you are that did that, you are a heartless asshole and should be ashamed of yerself. Hope yo uenjoy the money cause the security camera caught you doing it and once the cops review the tape, yer ass is busted.
But you know what I did? I did something that wasn't irresponsible or bad or even fucked up.
I pulled out my OWN wallet and gave my friend 200 bucks from my unemployment money, to help cover the money that was stolen. WHY you may ask?
Cause I'm a friend and I wouldn't expect ever anything in return. Its what friends do. I'm not a terrible person. Some like to make me look like one but it doesn't work nor does it phase me. I don't think with my dick when I have friends over. I don't play with emotions. I don't hide behind a false face of trust or love and later reveal myself to be nothing but a player.
All I'm saying is if you think of me as a bad person, think I'm evil or just irresponsible and you take a side before listening to both sides, then one day your gonna mess up that friendship you once had and not just hurt those you kicked to the curb, but later on you'll realize that you lost something truely special in your life when you learned the actual truth.
Here's a last bit of wisdom from this tiger.
"Blood in your body runs to 2 heads, try using the one that will make things better in life."
What you did makes you a kindhearted person...such kindness is one of the things i have always loved and respected about ya dude.
I do hope that ass hat who stole the money gets caught, and the money is returned to Killion. *hugs the kitty nuzzling happily*
I had to live with a very few money until last summer, then i changed my job and i know how much that means to have good friends like you.
I'm thinking actually like you and I also like to give something back in future to good friends so long i'm able to do this and does not expect anything in return. A smile is more than enough.
Too much people just lost their jobs the last months or have too live with a very few money and have it much more worse than me right now.
And you as an unemployment may not have much money to do things like that! So i really don't know what to say. You are a just a great guy!
And a big shame what happend to your friend last night... hope the person who have done this will gets his punishment for that!
Irresposible? For buying food with the unemployment money? Dude, food, rent and utilities are the FIRST things that should be looked at when collecting an unemployment check. You are not only responsible, you are HIGHLY RESPONSIBLE.
As for helping out the guy who had 150 bucks stolen, again, that is a responsible thing to do for a friend. Do you need to gave that 200 bucks sitting in your wallet right now? No, you've got enough food for the week, things might be tight for a bit, but you were already expecting that.
You are a role model for the community. We should all try to act more like you.
and I don't need to be any kind of role model. I just wanna be me is all.
Anyone who 'needs' or 'wants' to be a role model has already failed the test of humility.
You just keep being you, and we'll just keep being inspired by you being you.
Thats how I am too, I follow those phrases as well, they are on my page ^^
"Treat others the way u wish to be treated"
That is one quote that all should follow if we are to find peace among others, no matter how shitty my life is, nor how much trouble Im in, I always push aside that negative crap in order to be happy and greet others with a smile and be there for them as a real brother or parent would.
My name is Zharr J.Wolfie, and my ears may be big and cute, but my heart is even bigger for all the love I have to give out to those who need it. If u need a kiss on the cheek to help u feel better, then u better bet I'll be there to give it :)
*Hugs u tightly*
I carried WAY more than he did.
I've hit situations like that when i just give out money to help as well, but nothing where it hits that height. You are defentely a cool kitty, one with the a huge heart. Hope your days are rewarding to you cause you deserve them^^
Hugs and kisses from this wolfy.
I hope that guy gets what he deserves.
*Hugs* You're an awesome guy.