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Happy Single Awareness Day!
9 years ago
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Good morning all you bachelors and bachelorettes!
It’s that wonderful time of the year again: 50 percent off Valentine’s candy and appreciating the joy of being single, independent, and awesome-
Yeap, y’all know what day I’m referring to: Single Awareness Day! This is one of my favorite unofficial holidays. It’s a day to celebrate and be PROUD of being single and independent. Because single furs/people need love too. And before anyone says, “You don’t need a specific day to celebrate being with someone or appreciate being single...” You’re absolutely right; you don’t. If you love someone, you don’t need a holiday to cajole you into buying some overpriced crap just to prove you care for someone. Nor do singles need to be grumpy as hell towards couples or hate valentine’s day because you’re alone. Instead focusing on loving yourself instead and treating yourself to something nice- everyday, not just on February 14th.
Originally, I made these journals a few years back as kind of a joke and to counter all the lovey, dovey art and sappiness from valentine’s day. Now, I just like offering a twist to those whom are single and need some cheering up, or just need a good laugh this time of the year. And like myself, I know several of my watchers are single so I thought I'd share some anti-vday cheer with everyone with some of my favorite quotes and memes I saved for just such an occasion:
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 (okay, I'm just being a smartass with the last one, LOL)
As for how I’m spending singles day? Same way I spendvalentine’s day everyday: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.co.....c691634624.jpg
So why do I celebrate a day that was originally made to mock single people? Honestly? It amuses and tickles me- that and for some odd reason, it makes me happy. That, and contrary to popular belief- It is okay to be single...
...no really, is it and anyone that thinks or tells you otherwise obviously isn't happy enough with themselves to see past needing another person to fill whatever void they have in his or her life.
Being in a relationship does NOT guarantee happiness, especially if you weren't happy before getting in said relationship. Far too many people, especially furries, equate being in a relationship with being happy, not lonely or depressed; I’m sorry but that’s pathetic. You’re basically just putting a bandaid on your problems.
That is not to say there's anything wrong with wanting a relationship; you just don't NEED a partner (there's a difference between wanting and needing a companion...don't make me write a long journal differentiating between the two concepts). No, if you want a partner and feel they'll make you happy and "complete you?" More power to you- go for it! My point is, you won't be happy in a relationship if you're not happy with yourself first...
Anyway, I hope everyone has an awesome day, regardless of whether you’re single or in a relationship. As for me, I plan to spend today spoiling myself and relaxing. My day is already off to an awesome start: I ran two miles this morning…even saw the sunrise come up (that is such a great way to start the day!), work is nice and quiet, and this evening I’m going to treat myself to a pizza and some ice cream while gaming with a friend. And end the day with an early night...yes I like going to bed early, like 8-9pm early. But in my defense, I wake up at 0500 every morning to exercise and prepare for work so getting to bed early is a very rewarding thing for me. Life can’t get any better than that-
Happy Singles Awareness Day y'all! I'm off to...oh right, I have to work now- dang it. Okay, work then fun~
Disclaimer: Those of you in a relationship or seeing someone right now? Any comments along the lines of “You’ll find the right guy/girl one day…” or “Being single sucks!” comments will be instantly blocked- Sorry you had your day, now let us singles enjoy ours.
Nor do I want to hear any of you single folks whining about how miserable you are or how you can't find anyone...either find something positive about being single or DO something to change why you're single- simple as that.
It’s that wonderful time of the year again: 50 percent off Valentine’s candy and appreciating the joy of being single, independent, and awesome-
Yeap, y’all know what day I’m referring to: Single Awareness Day! This is one of my favorite unofficial holidays. It’s a day to celebrate and be PROUD of being single and independent. Because single furs/people need love too. And before anyone says, “You don’t need a specific day to celebrate being with someone or appreciate being single...” You’re absolutely right; you don’t. If you love someone, you don’t need a holiday to cajole you into buying some overpriced crap just to prove you care for someone. Nor do singles need to be grumpy as hell towards couples or hate valentine’s day because you’re alone. Instead focusing on loving yourself instead and treating yourself to something nice- everyday, not just on February 14th.
Originally, I made these journals a few years back as kind of a joke and to counter all the lovey, dovey art and sappiness from valentine’s day. Now, I just like offering a twist to those whom are single and need some cheering up, or just need a good laugh this time of the year. And like myself, I know several of my watchers are single so I thought I'd share some anti-vday cheer with everyone with some of my favorite quotes and memes I saved for just such an occasion:
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 (okay, I'm just being a smartass with the last one, LOL)
As for how I’m spending singles day? Same way I spend
So why do I celebrate a day that was originally made to mock single people? Honestly? It amuses and tickles me- that and for some odd reason, it makes me happy. That, and contrary to popular belief- It is okay to be single...
...no really, is it and anyone that thinks or tells you otherwise obviously isn't happy enough with themselves to see past needing another person to fill whatever void they have in his or her life.
Being in a relationship does NOT guarantee happiness, especially if you weren't happy before getting in said relationship. Far too many people, especially furries, equate being in a relationship with being happy, not lonely or depressed; I’m sorry but that’s pathetic. You’re basically just putting a bandaid on your problems.
That is not to say there's anything wrong with wanting a relationship; you just don't NEED a partner (there's a difference between wanting and needing a companion...don't make me write a long journal differentiating between the two concepts). No, if you want a partner and feel they'll make you happy and "complete you?" More power to you- go for it! My point is, you won't be happy in a relationship if you're not happy with yourself first...
Anyway, I hope everyone has an awesome day, regardless of whether you’re single or in a relationship. As for me, I plan to spend today spoiling myself and relaxing. My day is already off to an awesome start: I ran two miles this morning…even saw the sunrise come up (that is such a great way to start the day!), work is nice and quiet, and this evening I’m going to treat myself to a pizza and some ice cream while gaming with a friend. And end the day with an early night...yes I like going to bed early, like 8-9pm early. But in my defense, I wake up at 0500 every morning to exercise and prepare for work so getting to bed early is a very rewarding thing for me. Life can’t get any better than that-
Happy Singles Awareness Day y'all! I'm off to...oh right, I have to work now- dang it. Okay, work then fun~
Disclaimer: Those of you in a relationship or seeing someone right now? Any comments along the lines of “You’ll find the right guy/girl one day…” or “Being single sucks!” comments will be instantly blocked- Sorry you had your day, now let us singles enjoy ours.
Nor do I want to hear any of you single folks whining about how miserable you are or how you can't find anyone...either find something positive about being single or DO something to change why you're single- simple as that.
I'm technically not complaining but my reward day is gonna have to be postponed if not weird at all i picked up one heck of a nasty cold....Hope not the flu.... Been bed ridden for the past 2-3 days ontop of going to work when i get better its gonna be party for the full day! haha
You know, I finally reopened my fb page a few days ago as I haven't been active on there in nearly 8 years! (some friends on wow wanted me to add them). So after purging my buddy list, cleaning out my photos, I looked around? Meh, can't say I was really impressed with it: everyone seems to use fb to brag about how good their lives are (or appear to be), show off their kids and family, or how well they are doing since they were in school. The way I see it, why do you need to go on a social media site and post pictures of your business just to impress others? Seems kinda dumb to me...but no one asked me so *coughs* Just voicing my opinion, haha. But I digress-
Yeah, vday is literally just a show. Like yesterday my boss bought his wife, who also works up here, some flowers for her like he does every year. She doesn't much care for them, as she will admit to anyone who asks, but he buys them regardless so others will think they have a great marriage, they're happy, and he's fulfilling his unspoken role to buy her a gift for valentine's. And I'm thinking to myself, "why not just save your money and buy something she'll really enjoy or do something together without worrying about what their peers will say or think?" Geez. Yeah, that holiday has become so commercial it's ridiculous.
You're sick too? You're the second person I've spoken to this week that's picked up a bug. Not to mention half the people around here are sick too...probably doesn't help I work in a hospital but still- be careful over there, drink plenty of fluids, and get some rest when you can!
Well since fb is a social media i spose show what you wanna show if it won't get you in trouble. I admit i do my own dabble i'll share the goods and bad. Like when i'm insanely short at work and we get hammered into the 3rd dimension but we succeed and make it out alive then a post will appear of how i've got the best staff in the world to hold the fort from utter chaos. I do have old high school friends still that have kids and for valentines day shared what their kids brought them from school and it didn't bother me but actually made me smile and feel good inside like dang that's gotta feel so special to receive as a parent. But i admit like you said the bragging thing does get old like when someone gets a car from their parents or people that use their school pay to go on vacation really does grind my gears the most.
Valentines day, maybe in the future if i do get a gf and all yea i'll admit i'll buy her something but i'm not going all out and breaking the bank. Will take her out to eat....Another day but not on valentines day maybe the weekend when it's all over but no reason to burn 100-300 $ in one day nope i'm a scrooge lol
Yup i'm dying...Well i'm feeling a little bit better today yesterday i tried replying but all i wanted to do was sleep. Today was supposed to be day off number 2 but one of my other boss's need tonight off so that means i can go in and make some extra $. Bought me a humidifier after night 2 and either i'm undergoing a placebo or those things really do assist you sleeping at night, ontop of nyquil, my humidifier, and the vicks vapor strip thingy that fills the air i sleep soundly instead of hacking all night. On a side note i took some mucinex, thinking/hoping i can actually dislodge some more stuff and breath....dag nab it mucinex you failed me again! haha
Yeah, while I encourage people to comment on my art (most of which don't but whatever), I actually prefer interactive journals instead. I mean art is just that: something to oh and ah over and then move on. Whereas a journal you -hope- people read it and have some opinions or thoughts to share with you...or just ramble; I don't really mind either way, lol. And since I don't use any messenger programs nowadays, outside of notes or a quick shout, this really is the only way I can communicate with my friends and watchers on here.
I'm kinda meh on using facebook: in a way it's awesome since it has something for literally everyone! I know my raid team has a fb page, my guild has one, and I found some great fitness pages to help with my running. But as for old high school friends? I'll admit, most of them now have families and kids, whereas I don't so...we really don't share much in common anymore. Though it was cool seeing how some of them turned out over 10+ years later! I have to admit some of them really surprised me with their lives now. I have one former friend that does roller derby now! The same girl that used to squeak and jump up when someone came up behind her and scared her, lol
Hmm, if I ever date someone again I suppose I'll celebrate...singles day, LOL (whoever dates me is going to have to deal with such a headache). But no, I guess I wouldn't mind celebrating it...though it would be simple: order a pizza, have a game out or go out to the park or gym, then veg together *shrugs* I'm pretty simple when it comes to going out and doing stuff.
*pokes with a stick to make sure you're still alive* Well try to take it easy dang it and get some rest! You sound like a walking, half dead drug store over there with all the medication you're on, haha
Why would you get in a relationship because, "Oh woe is me. I'm alone, depressed, and need someone." No, your butt needs to find out why you're so damn lonely, find other ways to cure your loneliness and THEN consider looking for another person to bring into your life. Otherwise, they'll just act like a bandaid to huge cut; it'll only do so much before you realize you need more (excuse the crude analogy)
...BUT it's definitely not the end of the world. There are definitely worse things to deal with
a single, straight female who plays games? what world is this? XP
*hears the silence since no one believes such a female exists outside of tv and anime* Huh, must be a fantasy...no such creature is real!
...wait, wrong choice of words: thanks for the long-term membership and commitment to the singles club. There, fixed *chuckles*
Hierarchy of needs: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs
Most furs...and people never fulfill the safety, love/belonging, and esteem needs of said pyramid. So rather than trying to rectify said problem, they look for a partner(s) to act as a bandaid and cover up said problems and lack of needs. But we all know that doesn't work for long: eventually they'll want for more and wind up hurting themselves or someone else in the process.
So in short- you can't be happy with someone else until you're happy with yourself and fix your own damn problems. You can have others HELP you fix said problems and needs, but just using someone else as a crutch or hiding behind them won't solve them
All you said is good stuff though ~
I actually have no qualms against anyone in relationships; I used to be that way when I was younger, immature, and desperate for companionship...gah I'm so glad I'm past that stage of my life and can be happy with or without a partner. It's a great feeling~
Dang it now I want brownies too but to tired to make some *melts into recliner*
"I was force.. er, picked to help build them" The correct word is "voluntold." That's when you're volunteered to do something against your will and have no choice in the matter...that's a little word I made up years ago and now everyone at my job uses it to rely the "joy" of doing a task someone volunteered or picked for them to do. Anyway, I hope things are going okay with your job so hopefully things will be nice and stable for a while.
I found some low fat, low carb, high fiber brownies stashed in my pantry last night, woot! Oddly enough, they taste alot better than they sound (they're chocolate peanut butter brownies by fiber one)