so this is something long overdue. it’ll be relatable to more people than rock any boat, but i think it’s worth saying.

my life has become incredibly busy over the past year anf a half. i have nowhere near the amount of free time i used to have, and what little free time i do have is time i want to spend relaxing or doing something related to my hobbies. i’m both studying and working. that doesn’t leave me with a lot of time to spare.

if i’m online, that doesn’t mean i’m free to talk. i could be busy, i could be doing something else, i could be tired, i could just not be up to talkjng. me being online doesn’t give you the right to bombard me with messages and get angry when i can’t respond.