"You're saying something I don't like. It's problematic."
6 years ago
... Maybe you should be focusing on controlling your own emotions first before you try to control other people's emotions.
Do people sometimes say incredibly hostile things? Yeah... They do. And I'm not suggesting you should be okay with that.
But your emotional reaction to those things is what I'm getting at here. It's okay to get upset and be mad... But learn from it, and learn how to keep your emotions centered and in balance.
If someone saying something unpleasant sends you into a fit of rage, then that should tell you something's not right with you. And why are you letting other people control your emotions like that? Why? What purpose does it solve to let yourself fall into a pit of despair every time you hear something unpleasant?
You can't make the world a better place if you're constantly teetering on the edge of the abyss.
Do people sometimes say incredibly hostile things? Yeah... They do. And I'm not suggesting you should be okay with that.
But your emotional reaction to those things is what I'm getting at here. It's okay to get upset and be mad... But learn from it, and learn how to keep your emotions centered and in balance.
If someone saying something unpleasant sends you into a fit of rage, then that should tell you something's not right with you. And why are you letting other people control your emotions like that? Why? What purpose does it solve to let yourself fall into a pit of despair every time you hear something unpleasant?
You can't make the world a better place if you're constantly teetering on the edge of the abyss.